Davina McCall

Yeah.

saying it that's actually really important to do the little steps in a social situation beforehand to give yourself the confidence to be able to do it in a bedroom or yeah or somewhere a bit more intimate where it might be hard or otherwise baby steps I was thinking that what about if you've been with somebody for 15 years and you are thinking I want to spice up our life yeah

But then it's like asking consent for something that you've never tried before and you're a bit worried that your partner might go, what?

Or overreact.

How do you broach that kind of topic?

I don't know what it might be, but it might be something frisky or fruity that you've never done before and you think, oh, God.

And I guess even if you don't want that,

Just listen.

Go, God, I totally understand what you're saying, but I really... And then nobody being offended.

Yeah.

That's the key, isn't it?

I hear you.

Yeah.

I don't think I'm really ready.

I'll go away and process what you're saying and I'll come back to you, but I'm not sure how I feel about it.

But it's not like nobody should be shamed in that situation because it's brave and honest.

Yes.

And that's what makes it safe.

And safety is key.

Safety is sexy.