Davina Rankin

It's been really beautiful.

But I think one of the biggest ones, like, yes, absolutely, working with energy has been like the biggest profound shift.

But I think something that was almost more empowering and more liberating than the understanding of, oh, whoa, I can be in control

Well, not in control, but I can manage and I can process and I can regulate myself.

But I started, especially with being single, like I was celibate for a really long time.

And then I was really...

worried about how I was ever going to be intimate with another person because I didn't know myself on that level.

Yes, I was getting better at regulation.

Yes, I was understanding energy better.

Yes, I could start working with energy, seeing energy and all that kind of stuff.

But there was also this really deep wounding for me when it came to really truly allowing myself to be my biggest, most expressed self.

And just randomly one day I was like, I'm going to, this is really taking a turn, this conversation, but this is one of the biggest pivotal moments in my journey.

And I decided I was going to buy a crystal wand because like when it came to like self-love and self-pleasure and stuff, it was very like, you know, basic surface level.

Very physical.

Yeah.

And I was like, there's something there for me.

And I'm actually like, I had to get myself to a space where I had created enough safety within myself so I could even go to that step.

Right.

But for me to be able to go to the next step with another person or let anyone else see me, I actually had to walk through this myself first, which is something that I think women don't get the chance to do as they grow.

It's always like,