Dee Salmon

And that's hard for you to do.

But to completely, to your partner, to be like, no, I didn't mean it.

But I said it to my first ex when we were drunk, but we were also fighting.

Oh, he said it to me first, but I remember it came out when we were like fighting and drunk, but it was like, I think fighting over him, not showing me that he loved like him, me feeling like he didn't appreciate me or didn't like show up for me or something.

And he would have been like,

I do, I love, you know what I mean?

Yeah.

You don't want your first time to be someone like threatening, angry, trying to prove that they care about you.

The next morning when you're like, ugh.

I feel like saying I love you drunk or having a few drinks is like a soft I love you.

But the real I love you comes after when you discuss it the next day.

The kind of vulnerable hangover, pun intended, but just being like, did you mean that?

Oh, when you actually mean it.

That actually could be a good moment to do it.

Could be.

If you, if you both really mean it.

This is kind of where we landed, right?

With the conclusion pip.

Yes.

It is all about intentionality.