Dee Salmon

We're actually going to be talking about, well, it might be simple for some people, but it can be really complicated.

It can be.

Saying I love you for the first time.

Yeah.

Yeah.

For some people, it can genuinely be like one of the hardest things to say.

They might have never grown up saying it.

Their parents might have not said it to them.

Maybe they've never said it to anyone before.

So we want to explore, firstly, how long...

Should it take?

Yeah.

Because I think we have some unspoken rules that we need to unpack about when you should have already said it.

Yes.

But also when it's too quick to say it.

So I don't think I've even mentioned this on the pod yet, Pip, but we've had a new producer.

Wow, I just like really slight myself.

Um,

feel really strongly about this we've had a new producer who's been helping out uh every now and then with the hookup her name is camille she's fabulous and she actually was the inspiration behind this episode because she is seeing someone at this current time and they haven't said i love you yet and it's starting to freak her out and so she was like can you please do a whole episode about when is the right time what to do if you say it and they don't say it back

With my first boyfriend, I was so scared to do it.