Deontay Kyle
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Make you more success.
Make you more stable.
Increase your individual stability where you don't need him.
He's going to be threatened by that.
He doesn't want that to happen for you.
He wants to control you.
He wants to put you in a cage and call it love.
He said he doesn't want a partner who works long hours or isn't home every night, and he doesn't want kids with somebody who's always gone.
It feels like I'm always asked to shrink my entire life so he can feel secure.
That is exactly what he's doing.
He constantly dismisses my experience as a black woman.
He's called me racist for caring about my race.
Says he doesn't see color.
He introduces me as Trinidadian instead of black, even though I've explained how important my black identity is to me.
He refused to understand that when I walk into a room with locks, I'm seen as a black woman first, no matter how he feels about it.
You gotta leave this nigga.
And a nigga that doesn't see color?