Deontay Kyle

That was late July 2023, not even a year until our marriage. I was doing her bad. She laid down some boundaries and said divorce was on the table if I didn't clean up my act. So I did. Stopped cold turkey with everything related to porn. It was difficult, but coming up on almost two years clean in a short five months...

There was a span of four months between May 2024 and August 2024 where we weren't having sex because I felt so out of my body. I was 367 pounds in the military. It was getting hard just to walk around with my legs and my ankles. Shit would ache. So I didn't feel comfortable having sex with her, which I communicated in passing, but really didn't have an explanation for her.

There was a span of four months between May 2024 and August 2024 where we weren't having sex because I felt so out of my body. I was 367 pounds in the military. It was getting hard just to walk around with my legs and my ankles. Shit would ache. So I didn't feel comfortable having sex with her, which I communicated in passing, but really didn't have an explanation for her.

The hardest part is all of this. is me trying to gain her trust back after what happened. And I understand that takes time and effort on both our parts. But it's been the little things since we moved to Jacksonville that have been really causing some missteps. I'm more of a you help me, I help you type of guy in a relationship.

The hardest part is all of this. is me trying to gain her trust back after what happened. And I understand that takes time and effort on both our parts. But it's been the little things since we moved to Jacksonville that have been really causing some missteps. I'm more of a you help me, I help you type of guy in a relationship.

I could be Mr. Provider on certain occasions, but it's not sustainable for me in the long run. My wife has... Oh, my wife misconstrues this as 50-50 or tit-for-tat, and I get the impression that sometimes I'm just a bank account and supposed to go to work and die on the boat or something. For example, we got a rescue dog named Riley in June, and she was having some trouble with

I could be Mr. Provider on certain occasions, but it's not sustainable for me in the long run. My wife has... Oh, my wife misconstrues this as 50-50 or tit-for-tat, and I get the impression that sometimes I'm just a bank account and supposed to go to work and die on the boat or something. For example, we got a rescue dog named Riley in June, and she was having some trouble with

adjusting to her new diet so she threw up a few times inside and out on different occasions. One time I was getting ready for bed and climbed in and was turning the lights off when my wife came in and asked me to clean up her throw up off the patio.

adjusting to her new diet so she threw up a few times inside and out on different occasions. One time I was getting ready for bed and climbed in and was turning the lights off when my wife came in and asked me to clean up her throw up off the patio.

Low key I was annoyed because I was already in bed but I relented and went to clean it up but was upset she didn't try to do something before she asked me for help.

Low key I was annoyed because I was already in bed but I relented and went to clean it up but was upset she didn't try to do something before she asked me for help.

that was just the way i was raised if you're going to ask for help at least try to attempt first on your own i said something about this to her and it led to a huge argument i have more examples but this is kind of long things like the examples above are happening more often now she's saying she can't do it anymore and i'm taking it as she quite possibly wants a divorce how should i proceed

that was just the way i was raised if you're going to ask for help at least try to attempt first on your own i said something about this to her and it led to a huge argument i have more examples but this is kind of long things like the examples above are happening more often now she's saying she can't do it anymore and i'm taking it as she quite possibly wants a divorce how should i proceed

It seems like, I'll just be completely honest with you, it seems like that's the only option. This doesn't seem like anything repairable because if y'all don't share like a moral ethic, like if it's 50-50 or 10-10, first of all, if you're in a relationship and it's not a reciprocal relationship and it's like you do something for me, I do something for you, that ain't going to last long.

It seems like, I'll just be completely honest with you, it seems like that's the only option. This doesn't seem like anything repairable because if y'all don't share like a moral ethic, like if it's 50-50 or 10-10, first of all, if you're in a relationship and it's not a reciprocal relationship and it's like you do something for me, I do something for you, that ain't going to last long.

Because then there's no thoughtfulness in it. You know what I'm saying? You're not just buying flowers just to buy flowers. You buying flowers and hope she's going to do something else. Now, you know, think about the, I mean, if it's your dog, you know what I'm saying? Then yeah, go clean up and throw it. If it's a dog y'all got together, she could have cleaned that shit up. She could have. Yeah.

Because then there's no thoughtfulness in it. You know what I'm saying? You're not just buying flowers just to buy flowers. You buying flowers and hope she's going to do something else. Now, you know, think about the, I mean, if it's your dog, you know what I'm saying? Then yeah, go clean up and throw it. If it's a dog y'all got together, she could have cleaned that shit up. She could have. Yeah.

But that's not here or there. Um, it seems like y'all just don't share the same perspective. I mean, y'all are in the military. Y'all got together and you got married within two years. That's crazy. You don't even know a person for real in two years. Um, you gain a lot of weight, you have a lot of self-confidence issues and you had a porn addiction.

But that's not here or there. Um, it seems like y'all just don't share the same perspective. I mean, y'all are in the military. Y'all got together and you got married within two years. That's crazy. You don't even know a person for real in two years. Um, you gain a lot of weight, you have a lot of self-confidence issues and you had a porn addiction.

I mean, these are, can all be alarming things for somebody. Um, so you have to understand her perspective as well. Um, sex is very important for young people and sex is very important in a marriage period. Um, so you are not very forthcoming about your reasoning on why you do things and then you just expect her to understand. Um, and I also think that, I just don't think y'all are compatible.