Deontay Kyle
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I mean, these are, can all be alarming things for somebody. Um, so you have to understand her perspective as well. Um, sex is very important for young people and sex is very important in a marriage period. Um, so you are not very forthcoming about your reasoning on why you do things and then you just expect her to understand. Um, and I also think that, I just don't think y'all are compatible.
It doesn't seem like y'all are two compatible people. I don't think a divorce is the worst thing that can happen in the world. It may hurt. But honestly, in a marriage, from my perspective, I've always been a provider first type man. That's how I was raised. I've only seen men provide.
It doesn't seem like y'all are two compatible people. I don't think a divorce is the worst thing that can happen in the world. It may hurt. But honestly, in a marriage, from my perspective, I've always been a provider first type man. That's how I was raised. I've only seen men provide.
I understand that it can be a thankless job at times, but, hey, when you're providing and, you know, you got your old lady staying home with the kids and taking care of the household and making sure all your clothes are washed, that's a hard job, too. So if y'all are both working, then y'all should both be sharing the responsibilities. And y'all don't have to worry about 50-50.
I understand that it can be a thankless job at times, but, hey, when you're providing and, you know, you got your old lady staying home with the kids and taking care of the household and making sure all your clothes are washed, that's a hard job, too. So if y'all are both working, then y'all should both be sharing the responsibilities. And y'all don't have to worry about 50-50.
I think y'all just need to get off the Internet and stop letting the Internet dictate to y'all how you should behave in a...
I think y'all just need to get off the Internet and stop letting the Internet dictate to y'all how you should behave in a...
relationship and y'all should really talk to each other and see what works best for y'all because it seems like you don't want to do nothing if nothing's being done for you either so it seems like it's two selfish people um trying to figure out how to navigate being selfish and selfless at the same time you know nobody wants to give more than they can take and that's a problem um usually if she's presented you with a divorce option already
relationship and y'all should really talk to each other and see what works best for y'all because it seems like you don't want to do nothing if nothing's being done for you either so it seems like it's two selfish people um trying to figure out how to navigate being selfish and selfless at the same time you know nobody wants to give more than they can take and that's a problem um usually if she's presented you with a divorce option already
She's pretty much made up her mind. She can live without you. Um, if she's saying she can't do this no more, like this is something she's already thought about. Y'all have been through too much in such a, in a five year period. Um, if the first five years, it shouldn't be like this. And I'm saying you got problems, but God damn, you know what I'm saying? So if there is no infidelity.
She's pretty much made up her mind. She can live without you. Um, if she's saying she can't do this no more, like this is something she's already thought about. Y'all have been through too much in such a, in a five year period. Um, if the first five years, it shouldn't be like this. And I'm saying you got problems, but God damn, you know what I'm saying? So if there is no infidelity.
You know, infidelity is usually the thing that kind of like send things off the rails. But if there's no infidelity and y'all acting like this, then there's just no compatibility. And you need to be willing to let this go while you're young instead of holding on and further damaging yourself and your self-esteem. Work on yourself. You already got the porn thing out the way.
You know, infidelity is usually the thing that kind of like send things off the rails. But if there's no infidelity and y'all acting like this, then there's just no compatibility. And you need to be willing to let this go while you're young instead of holding on and further damaging yourself and your self-esteem. Work on yourself. You already got the porn thing out the way.
Don't fall back on that. You know, you're in the Navy. Work out. Use the resources available to you to get your eating under control. To get your... Go to therapy. Use the resources. But get out this marriage. You know, because she went out and you went in and this doesn't bode well for you mentally or you just went in because you're comfortable and you still got some self-esteem issues.
Don't fall back on that. You know, you're in the Navy. Work out. Use the resources available to you to get your eating under control. To get your... Go to therapy. Use the resources. But get out this marriage. You know, because she went out and you went in and this doesn't bode well for you mentally or you just went in because you're comfortable and you still got some self-esteem issues.
So you just want somebody to be there and that's a sign of codependency. The natural course that this is going to take is y'all ain't going to be together. So you can either end it now or wait till it gets all the way messy. But you got to pull the cord on this because this doesn't seem like, I mean, it just doesn't seem like y'all are compatible. It seems like y'all trying to fling into a thing.
So you just want somebody to be there and that's a sign of codependency. The natural course that this is going to take is y'all ain't going to be together. So you can either end it now or wait till it gets all the way messy. But you got to pull the cord on this because this doesn't seem like, I mean, it just doesn't seem like y'all are compatible. It seems like y'all trying to fling into a thing.
Yep. So, best of luck to you, brother. Good job on getting off that porn, though. We got voicemails.
Yep. So, best of luck to you, brother. Good job on getting off that porn, though. We got voicemails.
Uh, you got a little long winded. Uh, you only got three minutes, but I think, uh, First of all, shout out to you, bro. That's love. Showed a lot of love, a lot of charisma. I can tell you like kind of probably a naturally funny guy.