Derek

We all hurt people when we hurt, but like. That's that's just that's petty. And so, I mean, if he's if he's petty at 40, this is who he is. If you are going to date older men, then you should have a shorter leash. You should, you know, hire slow, fire fast.

We all hurt people when we hurt, but like. That's that's just that's petty. And so, I mean, if he's if he's petty at 40, this is who he is. If you are going to date older men, then you should have a shorter leash. You should, you know, hire slow, fire fast.

Well, this is, you know, 40 year old men don't change much.

Well, this is, you know, 40 year old men don't change much.

Well, this is, you know, 40 year old men don't change much.

If a 40 year old man is going to lose his shit over you not inviting him to a wedding, you know, and, you know, and then be petty and mean about it and say things about like how you dress in a way that's not meant to be like, you know, I just like that other one, but better, you know, like, you know, sometimes I've said that and I was like, oh, I probably shouldn't have said that.

If a 40 year old man is going to lose his shit over you not inviting him to a wedding, you know, and, you know, and then be petty and mean about it and say things about like how you dress in a way that's not meant to be like, you know, I just like that other one, but better, you know, like, you know, sometimes I've said that and I was like, oh, I probably shouldn't have said that.

If a 40 year old man is going to lose his shit over you not inviting him to a wedding, you know, and, you know, and then be petty and mean about it and say things about like how you dress in a way that's not meant to be like, you know, I just like that other one, but better, you know, like, you know, sometimes I've said that and I was like, oh, I probably shouldn't have said that.

You know, but if he's just like, you know, honestly, your jewelry makes you look like a blah, blah, blah, you know, and it's mean and it cuts and it hurts. And it's just like, I'm just saying, this is who they are. You cannot expect much growth from these men, you know?

You know, but if he's just like, you know, honestly, your jewelry makes you look like a blah, blah, blah, you know, and it's mean and it cuts and it hurts. And it's just like, I'm just saying, this is who they are. You cannot expect much growth from these men, you know?

You know, but if he's just like, you know, honestly, your jewelry makes you look like a blah, blah, blah, you know, and it's mean and it cuts and it hurts. And it's just like, I'm just saying, this is who they are. You cannot expect much growth from these men, you know?

The only hope of dating someone younger and not at risk is they're not, you know, for the ladies out there who are dating men in their 20s, he might change. He ain't changing for you. And it's not going to be for at least five to 10 years. So don't be waiting for any change. But you know what I'm saying? But for you, I wouldn't be accepting a lot of bad behavior with middle-aged men.

The only hope of dating someone younger and not at risk is they're not, you know, for the ladies out there who are dating men in their 20s, he might change. He ain't changing for you. And it's not going to be for at least five to 10 years. So don't be waiting for any change. But you know what I'm saying? But for you, I wouldn't be accepting a lot of bad behavior with middle-aged men.

The only hope of dating someone younger and not at risk is they're not, you know, for the ladies out there who are dating men in their 20s, he might change. He ain't changing for you. And it's not going to be for at least five to 10 years. So don't be waiting for any change. But you know what I'm saying? But for you, I wouldn't be accepting a lot of bad behavior with middle-aged men.

You definitely could find a guy who is just like, you go to his apartment and he's got fucking baseball caps and movie posters on his wall. And you're like, how old are you? He just might need a good woman in his life. But how he treats people, how he treats his girlfriend, how emotional reactive he is. Yeah, that's not going to change. That's not changing.

You definitely could find a guy who is just like, you go to his apartment and he's got fucking baseball caps and movie posters on his wall. And you're like, how old are you? He just might need a good woman in his life. But how he treats people, how he treats his girlfriend, how emotional reactive he is. Yeah, that's not going to change. That's not changing.

You definitely could find a guy who is just like, you go to his apartment and he's got fucking baseball caps and movie posters on his wall. And you're like, how old are you? He just might need a good woman in his life. But how he treats people, how he treats his girlfriend, how emotional reactive he is. Yeah, that's not going to change. That's not changing.

I'm not going to find someone I like as much, which is only dating a six foot attractive, which I don't.

I'm not going to find someone I like as much, which is only dating a six foot attractive, which I don't.

I'm not going to find someone I like as much, which is only dating a six foot attractive, which I don't.