Derek

financially successful men are they're not they're yeah they're pretty terrible you're literally looking for less than one percent of people out there yeah just i mean i think listen aim big i did too but like you know um there you go you do have to accept and acknowledge that uh and if you're gonna if your standards are going to be that high you better be fucking great right you know just just know that you know you better you better bring your

financially successful men are they're not they're yeah they're pretty terrible you're literally looking for less than one percent of people out there yeah just i mean i think listen aim big i did too but like you know um there you go you do have to accept and acknowledge that uh and if you're gonna if your standards are going to be that high you better be fucking great right you know just just know that you know you better you better bring your

financially successful men are they're not they're yeah they're pretty terrible you're literally looking for less than one percent of people out there yeah just i mean i think listen aim big i did too but like you know um there you go you do have to accept and acknowledge that uh and if you're gonna if your standards are going to be that high you better be fucking great right you know just just know that you know you better you better bring your

times and it happens.

times and it happens.

times and it happens.

Listen, if you think there's something here with this guy and you reflect on this conversation and you think, listen, there's definitely... No, there isn't. I demonstrated some red flags. He did too. And I want to clear the air. Maybe there's something there. But if this is about closure in your reputation or your... My ego. Let it go. Just move on.

Listen, if you think there's something here with this guy and you reflect on this conversation and you think, listen, there's definitely... No, there isn't. I demonstrated some red flags. He did too. And I want to clear the air. Maybe there's something there. But if this is about closure in your reputation or your... My ego. Let it go. Just move on.

Listen, if you think there's something here with this guy and you reflect on this conversation and you think, listen, there's definitely... No, there isn't. I demonstrated some red flags. He did too. And I want to clear the air. Maybe there's something there. But if this is about closure in your reputation or your... My ego. Let it go. Just move on.

and critiqued me about things that i'm so surprised would even come to his mind yeah then you need to you definitely need to move on because yeah i need to just drop it like this is about your ego and it's just like you want to claim victory or the moral high ground in this relationship not necessarily consciously but you realize that you said some shit too and you're not perfect so you want to like kind of clean that mess up so that you can be right

and critiqued me about things that i'm so surprised would even come to his mind yeah then you need to you definitely need to move on because yeah i need to just drop it like this is about your ego and it's just like you want to claim victory or the moral high ground in this relationship not necessarily consciously but you realize that you said some shit too and you're not perfect so you want to like kind of clean that mess up so that you can be right

and critiqued me about things that i'm so surprised would even come to his mind yeah then you need to you definitely need to move on because yeah i need to just drop it like this is about your ego and it's just like you want to claim victory or the moral high ground in this relationship not necessarily consciously but you realize that you said some shit too and you're not perfect so you want to like kind of clean that mess up so that you can be right

I can't stand it. Yeah, that's a you problem for sure.

I can't stand it. Yeah, that's a you problem for sure.

I can't stand it. Yeah, that's a you problem for sure.

Well, that's what's, listen, like I will, to make some excuses for you and all of us in the world is like, that's the problem. the way we have taken these words like narcissism, you know, because the truth is, is 99% of all breakups are just breakups. And like, you're supposed to hate your ex and you're supposed to fucking be angry and then focus on all the fucking things they said.

Well, that's what's, listen, like I will, to make some excuses for you and all of us in the world is like, that's the problem. the way we have taken these words like narcissism, you know, because the truth is, is 99% of all breakups are just breakups. And like, you're supposed to hate your ex and you're supposed to fucking be angry and then focus on all the fucking things they said.

Well, that's what's, listen, like I will, to make some excuses for you and all of us in the world is like, that's the problem. the way we have taken these words like narcissism, you know, because the truth is, is 99% of all breakups are just breakups. And like, you're supposed to hate your ex and you're supposed to fucking be angry and then focus on all the fucking things they said.

And then if you were described that to a friend, they're supposed to hate them too. Because they're your friend. That still doesn't mean they're a narcissist. But instead, now we've used these words to be like, oh, he's a gaslighting motherfucking narcissist. You dated a sociopath. And bonus, now in addition to getting over him, you get to be a victim.

And then if you were described that to a friend, they're supposed to hate them too. Because they're your friend. That still doesn't mean they're a narcissist. But instead, now we've used these words to be like, oh, he's a gaslighting motherfucking narcissist. You dated a sociopath. And bonus, now in addition to getting over him, you get to be a victim.