Derek

well i mean yeah we should be more you know we're far more emotionally immature in our 20s than we should be in our 30s or 40s right but like all i'm saying is this it was a great that he came back and it was great that he fought for you and i really like that he's definitely made improvements but these are these are some bare minimum shit you're describing and you're just like wow he got me a valentine's day gift and they were airpods and i'm a lucky girl

well i mean yeah we should be more you know we're far more emotionally immature in our 20s than we should be in our 30s or 40s right but like all i'm saying is this it was a great that he came back and it was great that he fought for you and i really like that he's definitely made improvements but these are these are some bare minimum shit you're describing and you're just like wow he got me a valentine's day gift and they were airpods and i'm a lucky girl

well i mean yeah we should be more you know we're far more emotionally immature in our 20s than we should be in our 30s or 40s right but like all i'm saying is this it was a great that he came back and it was great that he fought for you and i really like that he's definitely made improvements but these are these are some bare minimum shit you're describing and you're just like wow he got me a valentine's day gift and they were airpods and i'm a lucky girl

You know? Yeah. And I think what I'm saying is I think you could ask a lot more of him. I think you could just act like some baddie who's just like, I don't have time for your bullshit anymore. And just tell him exactly what you want. And if he can't give it to you, regardless if it's because he needs more therapy, he's avoidant, he has whatever his excuse is, it's not your problem.

You know? Yeah. And I think what I'm saying is I think you could ask a lot more of him. I think you could just act like some baddie who's just like, I don't have time for your bullshit anymore. And just tell him exactly what you want. And if he can't give it to you, regardless if it's because he needs more therapy, he's avoidant, he has whatever his excuse is, it's not your problem.

You know? Yeah. And I think what I'm saying is I think you could ask a lot more of him. I think you could just act like some baddie who's just like, I don't have time for your bullshit anymore. And just tell him exactly what you want. And if he can't give it to you, regardless if it's because he needs more therapy, he's avoidant, he has whatever his excuse is, it's not your problem.

And you just don't have time for it. Because there are people out there who are ready to date you.

And you just don't have time for it. Because there are people out there who are ready to date you.

And you just don't have time for it. Because there are people out there who are ready to date you.

You know what I'm saying? You're playing games. I don't think you're going to listen to this advice, at least not yet. But if I were you, I'd get off this call. And the next time you talk to him, I'd be like, listen, you're either my boyfriend or you're not. And I'm not asking you to marry me.

You know what I'm saying? You're playing games. I don't think you're going to listen to this advice, at least not yet. But if I were you, I'd get off this call. And the next time you talk to him, I'd be like, listen, you're either my boyfriend or you're not. And I'm not asking you to marry me.

You know what I'm saying? You're playing games. I don't think you're going to listen to this advice, at least not yet. But if I were you, I'd get off this call. And the next time you talk to him, I'd be like, listen, you're either my boyfriend or you're not. And I'm not asking you to marry me.

But if you can't just be my boyfriend and be comfortable with the label, then you are not just in a position to be the type of person I'm looking for. That's not that hard. I agree with that. You should treat him like the person you want to date. You are treating him like a little boy that you like, and you're trying to mold into the man that you want to date.

But if you can't just be my boyfriend and be comfortable with the label, then you are not just in a position to be the type of person I'm looking for. That's not that hard. I agree with that. You should treat him like the person you want to date. You are treating him like a little boy that you like, and you're trying to mold into the man that you want to date.

But if you can't just be my boyfriend and be comfortable with the label, then you are not just in a position to be the type of person I'm looking for. That's not that hard. I agree with that. You should treat him like the person you want to date. You are treating him like a little boy that you like, and you're trying to mold into the man that you want to date.

You don't?

You don't?

You don't?

But what about the... Yeah, but why can't he just be your boyfriend? Like why... Yeah. Why does he need more time?

But what about the... Yeah, but why can't he just be your boyfriend? Like why... Yeah. Why does he need more time?