Derek

But what about the... Yeah, but why can't he just be your boyfriend? Like why... Yeah. Why does he need more time?

And that's understandable. And I appreciate his vulnerability. But that doesn't mean you don't have the right to challenge him or push back. And that pushing back could be like, listen, thank you for sharing. And yeah, I'm scared too. I've been burned. I don't know. Have you ever been burned?

And that's understandable. And I appreciate his vulnerability. But that doesn't mean you don't have the right to challenge him or push back. And that pushing back could be like, listen, thank you for sharing. And yeah, I'm scared too. I've been burned. I don't know. Have you ever been burned?

And that's understandable. And I appreciate his vulnerability. But that doesn't mean you don't have the right to challenge him or push back. And that pushing back could be like, listen, thank you for sharing. And yeah, I'm scared too. I've been burned. I don't know. Have you ever been burned?

So, you know, you're like, I've been burned too. Again, like us calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend, honestly, it doesn't really mean much. It just means that like, I can just call you my fucking boyfriend. We still have a lot to learn about each other. Like, I don't know. Like, yeah. And yeah, I want to take that slow with you too.

So, you know, you're like, I've been burned too. Again, like us calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend, honestly, it doesn't really mean much. It just means that like, I can just call you my fucking boyfriend. We still have a lot to learn about each other. Like, I don't know. Like, yeah. And yeah, I want to take that slow with you too.

So, you know, you're like, I've been burned too. Again, like us calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend, honestly, it doesn't really mean much. It just means that like, I can just call you my fucking boyfriend. We still have a lot to learn about each other. Like, I don't know. Like, yeah. And yeah, I want to take that slow with you too.

Nothing really needs to change other than like the fact that like these weird excuses of why you can't be my boyfriend, but like, let's definitely take it slow. And I don't know, like you, I don't know. We can't promise each other we're not gonna hurt each other. And like, that's emotional maturity.

Nothing really needs to change other than like the fact that like these weird excuses of why you can't be my boyfriend, but like, let's definitely take it slow. And I don't know, like you, I don't know. We can't promise each other we're not gonna hurt each other. And like, that's emotional maturity.

Nothing really needs to change other than like the fact that like these weird excuses of why you can't be my boyfriend, but like, let's definitely take it slow. And I don't know, like you, I don't know. We can't promise each other we're not gonna hurt each other. And like, that's emotional maturity.

You know, emotional maturity is like, you know, yeah, like 18, 19, 21, 20, you know, we fuck each other up. I always like to use that car analogy, right? Like, you know, this love and dating is this crazy thing. And it just, it has such an impact on our lives. And we get into it with like absolutely no experience. And it's like no different than getting into like a Lamborghini.

You know, emotional maturity is like, you know, yeah, like 18, 19, 21, 20, you know, we fuck each other up. I always like to use that car analogy, right? Like, you know, this love and dating is this crazy thing. And it just, it has such an impact on our lives. And we get into it with like absolutely no experience. And it's like no different than getting into like a Lamborghini.

You know, emotional maturity is like, you know, yeah, like 18, 19, 21, 20, you know, we fuck each other up. I always like to use that car analogy, right? Like, you know, this love and dating is this crazy thing. And it just, it has such an impact on our lives. And we get into it with like absolutely no experience. And it's like no different than getting into like a Lamborghini.

driving for the very first time and being like, sorry, I don't know how to drive this thing. But that's what we do, right? And so, yeah. But you're supposed to have some progress. And so, you are just... And I probably sounded harsh and I'm sorry, but when I say boy, I'm sure he's a good guy. A lot of boys are. You do need to expect more from him. You're kind of talking as if...

driving for the very first time and being like, sorry, I don't know how to drive this thing. But that's what we do, right? And so, yeah. But you're supposed to have some progress. And so, you are just... And I probably sounded harsh and I'm sorry, but when I say boy, I'm sure he's a good guy. A lot of boys are. You do need to expect more from him. You're kind of talking as if...

driving for the very first time and being like, sorry, I don't know how to drive this thing. But that's what we do, right? And so, yeah. But you're supposed to have some progress. And so, you are just... And I probably sounded harsh and I'm sorry, but when I say boy, I'm sure he's a good guy. A lot of boys are. You do need to expect more from him. You're kind of talking as if...

It's like, yeah, you've had a broken heart, but man, he's a guy with a broken heart. And boy, he needs to be really taken care of.

It's like, yeah, you've had a broken heart, but man, he's a guy with a broken heart. And boy, he needs to be really taken care of.

It's like, yeah, you've had a broken heart, but man, he's a guy with a broken heart. And boy, he needs to be really taken care of.

Listen, I have no opinion. I'm trying to just give you my, well, I have opinion, but I don't care. What I want is for you to be happy. And the difference between you and I right now is I'm open to your happiness being in the long run. And right now you want to be happy today.