Derek

And my gut tells me that's what he's doing.

And my gut tells me that's what he's doing.

And my gut tells me that's what he's doing.

Yeah, but you're still just as emotionally invested.

Yeah, but you're still just as emotionally invested.

Yeah, but you're still just as emotionally invested.

Yeah. So it really, I don't know. It's really up to you. The through line of everything I taught, it doesn't matter what the call is, right? It just comes down to managing your emotional energy and you get to pick where it goes. And I honestly find that the key to happiness is getting better at prioritizing where you spend your emotional energy.

Yeah. So it really, I don't know. It's really up to you. The through line of everything I taught, it doesn't matter what the call is, right? It just comes down to managing your emotional energy and you get to pick where it goes. And I honestly find that the key to happiness is getting better at prioritizing where you spend your emotional energy.

Yeah. So it really, I don't know. It's really up to you. The through line of everything I taught, it doesn't matter what the call is, right? It just comes down to managing your emotional energy and you get to pick where it goes. And I honestly find that the key to happiness is getting better at prioritizing where you spend your emotional energy.

Do you spend it on things that make you happy or do you spend it on things that make you sad or anxious or whatever? And despite you liking this guy, he doesn't make you happy. I mean, he does give you the opportunity to use and express a love language.

Do you spend it on things that make you happy or do you spend it on things that make you sad or anxious or whatever? And despite you liking this guy, he doesn't make you happy. I mean, he does give you the opportunity to use and express a love language.

Do you spend it on things that make you happy or do you spend it on things that make you sad or anxious or whatever? And despite you liking this guy, he doesn't make you happy. I mean, he does give you the opportunity to use and express a love language.

And I think when you do care for this man emotionally, it really brings you value because you probably have a very nurturing heart and acts of service is probably a love language of yours. So it's not completely one-sided, but he doesn't make you all that happy.

And I think when you do care for this man emotionally, it really brings you value because you probably have a very nurturing heart and acts of service is probably a love language of yours. So it's not completely one-sided, but he doesn't make you all that happy.

And I think when you do care for this man emotionally, it really brings you value because you probably have a very nurturing heart and acts of service is probably a love language of yours. So it's not completely one-sided, but he doesn't make you all that happy.

you know, your emotional energy is usually around him anxious and confused and frustrated and just like questioning things constantly because like it's always on his terms. And sometimes you can convince yourself that his terms match your terms when you also don't want to like

you know, your emotional energy is usually around him anxious and confused and frustrated and just like questioning things constantly because like it's always on his terms. And sometimes you can convince yourself that his terms match your terms when you also don't want to like

you know, your emotional energy is usually around him anxious and confused and frustrated and just like questioning things constantly because like it's always on his terms. And sometimes you can convince yourself that his terms match your terms when you also don't want to like

because he's being a dick or, you know, overreacting or just like kind of acting like tonight, you know, maybe a little even gaslighting, you know, potentially this man is Snapchatting other girls and telling you he can't do this because he doesn't like how you're acting. And he's seeing red flags from you. And again, you're, you're, you're right. He's not your, he's not your boyfriend.

because he's being a dick or, you know, overreacting or just like kind of acting like tonight, you know, maybe a little even gaslighting, you know, potentially this man is Snapchatting other girls and telling you he can't do this because he doesn't like how you're acting. And he's seeing red flags from you. And again, you're, you're, you're right. He's not your, he's not your boyfriend.