Derek

because he's being a dick or, you know, overreacting or just like kind of acting like tonight, you know, maybe a little even gaslighting, you know, potentially this man is Snapchatting other girls and telling you he can't do this because he doesn't like how you're acting. And he's seeing red flags from you. And again, you're, you're, you're right. He's not your, he's not your boyfriend.

So like, you know, but he is operating in the gray on purpose and he doesn't want to acknowledge that. And probably because he's convinced himself that he is the victim.

So like, you know, but he is operating in the gray on purpose and he doesn't want to acknowledge that. And probably because he's convinced himself that he is the victim.

So like, you know, but he is operating in the gray on purpose and he doesn't want to acknowledge that. And probably because he's convinced himself that he is the victim.

You know, because I'm sure his broken heart was broken. And I'm sure it really fucked him up. And I think, honestly, the advice I gave to him, I'm sure he's a great guy. But right now, it doesn't sound like he's the man that you want to date and the man that probably is deserving of you. And I wouldn't expect a ton of progress from this person anytime soon.

You know, because I'm sure his broken heart was broken. And I'm sure it really fucked him up. And I think, honestly, the advice I gave to him, I'm sure he's a great guy. But right now, it doesn't sound like he's the man that you want to date and the man that probably is deserving of you. And I wouldn't expect a ton of progress from this person anytime soon.

You know, because I'm sure his broken heart was broken. And I'm sure it really fucked him up. And I think, honestly, the advice I gave to him, I'm sure he's a great guy. But right now, it doesn't sound like he's the man that you want to date and the man that probably is deserving of you. And I wouldn't expect a ton of progress from this person anytime soon.

And you are setting yourself up for a very long and a very emotional, like up at roller coaster with this person that could last years and almost never ends the way you want. The bright side, if you opt into this journey, is that you'll learn a lot about yourself. But it'll be some real tough lessons that I hope that you choose to avoid. I didn't. I did not choose to avoid them.

And you are setting yourself up for a very long and a very emotional, like up at roller coaster with this person that could last years and almost never ends the way you want. The bright side, if you opt into this journey, is that you'll learn a lot about yourself. But it'll be some real tough lessons that I hope that you choose to avoid. I didn't. I did not choose to avoid them.

And you are setting yourself up for a very long and a very emotional, like up at roller coaster with this person that could last years and almost never ends the way you want. The bright side, if you opt into this journey, is that you'll learn a lot about yourself. But it'll be some real tough lessons that I hope that you choose to avoid. I didn't. I did not choose to avoid them.

But in the meantime, because I don't know if you're ready to let him go, maybe just practice just not accepting his bullshit. Just tell him what you want. He can set your boundaries, enforce your boundaries. He can accept them or not. That's his choice. But just be the assertive person who's just like, you know what? That's not good enough. And these aren't red flags.

But in the meantime, because I don't know if you're ready to let him go, maybe just practice just not accepting his bullshit. Just tell him what you want. He can set your boundaries, enforce your boundaries. He can accept them or not. That's his choice. But just be the assertive person who's just like, you know what? That's not good enough. And these aren't red flags.

But in the meantime, because I don't know if you're ready to let him go, maybe just practice just not accepting his bullshit. Just tell him what you want. He can set your boundaries, enforce your boundaries. He can accept them or not. That's his choice. But just be the assertive person who's just like, you know what? That's not good enough. And these aren't red flags.

I asked a very simple question. Why aren't you messaging other girls on Snapchat? Ew. And again, it's fine if you are, but like you did come to me and say, I'm sorry, I almost lost you. I'm ready to be different. You literally asked for a second fucking chance with me.

I asked a very simple question. Why aren't you messaging other girls on Snapchat? Ew. And again, it's fine if you are, but like you did come to me and say, I'm sorry, I almost lost you. I'm ready to be different. You literally asked for a second fucking chance with me.

I asked a very simple question. Why aren't you messaging other girls on Snapchat? Ew. And again, it's fine if you are, but like you did come to me and say, I'm sorry, I almost lost you. I'm ready to be different. You literally asked for a second fucking chance with me.

You asked me and you have the nerve to be getting mad at me because I'm questioning why you're messaging other, sending pictures to other girls? Come on.

You asked me and you have the nerve to be getting mad at me because I'm questioning why you're messaging other, sending pictures to other girls? Come on.

You asked me and you have the nerve to be getting mad at me because I'm questioning why you're messaging other, sending pictures to other girls? Come on.

Listen, like, I know this is tough love, Nick, and I'm being hard, but like, and I only just because it's just like you're at a very pivotal point in your life right now. And I don't know if you realize it. This person could really fuck you up. Like, this is a story as old as time.