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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Listen, like, I know this is tough love, Nick, and I'm being hard, but like, and I only just because it's just like you're at a very pivotal point in your life right now. And I don't know if you realize it. This person could really fuck you up. Like, this is a story as old as time.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Listen, like, I know this is tough love, Nick, and I'm being hard, but like, and I only just because it's just like you're at a very pivotal point in your life right now. And I don't know if you realize it. This person could really fuck you up. Like, this is a story as old as time.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

No, I agree. You can learn a lot about yourself, you know. But the good news is, is like people who are in your position, like you're going to find your person because, you know, the trick for you is to find someone who really is going to, because clearly you are willing to give in a relationship. That's obvious. You are willing to do your part.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

No, I agree. You can learn a lot about yourself, you know. But the good news is, is like people who are in your position, like you're going to find your person because, you know, the trick for you is to find someone who really is going to, because clearly you are willing to give in a relationship. That's obvious. You are willing to do your part.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

No, I agree. You can learn a lot about yourself, you know. But the good news is, is like people who are in your position, like you're going to find your person because, you know, the trick for you is to find someone who really is going to, because clearly you are willing to give in a relationship. That's obvious. You are willing to do your part.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Your problem is you're too willing to do their part too. And then convince yourself that they need you. And then you feel good about that. And you just can't do that, right? Because the more of their part that you do, they start thinking it's their part to do it too. They're like, oh, it's like dating the guy whose mom did his laundry the whole time. And he's just like, I don't do laundry.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Your problem is you're too willing to do their part too. And then convince yourself that they need you. And then you feel good about that. And you just can't do that, right? Because the more of their part that you do, they start thinking it's their part to do it too. They're like, oh, it's like dating the guy whose mom did his laundry the whole time. And he's just like, I don't do laundry.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Your problem is you're too willing to do their part too. And then convince yourself that they need you. And then you feel good about that. And you just can't do that, right? Because the more of their part that you do, they start thinking it's their part to do it too. They're like, oh, it's like dating the guy whose mom did his laundry the whole time. And he's just like, I don't do laundry.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Now, I also don't do laundry because I fucking hate laundry. And it turns out my wife loves it. And I will do the dishes.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Now, I also don't do laundry because I fucking hate laundry. And it turns out my wife loves it. And I will do the dishes.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Now, I also don't do laundry because I fucking hate laundry. And it turns out my wife loves it. And I will do the dishes.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

That's self-aware. Yeah.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

That's self-aware. Yeah.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

That's self-aware. Yeah.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Do you want a partner or do you want a guy to provide and give you kids? Because honestly, like some... Men and women get into relationships for different reasons. Some people have partners, some people have husbands.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Do you want a partner or do you want a guy to provide and give you kids? Because honestly, like some... Men and women get into relationships for different reasons. Some people have partners, some people have husbands.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Do you want a partner or do you want a guy to provide and give you kids? Because honestly, like some... Men and women get into relationships for different reasons. Some people have partners, some people have husbands.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I hope this doesn't sound condescending, but you're still relatively young and you're still figuring it out what your boundaries and standards and expectations should be. As long as you're learning through this experience, it's fine. But learning...

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I hope this doesn't sound condescending, but you're still relatively young and you're still figuring it out what your boundaries and standards and expectations should be. As long as you're learning through this experience, it's fine. But learning...

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I hope this doesn't sound condescending, but you're still relatively young and you're still figuring it out what your boundaries and standards and expectations should be. As long as you're learning through this experience, it's fine. But learning...