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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Is that and then that either of us really that escalate your urgency around understanding his willingness to convert at that point?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Is that and then that either of us really that escalate your urgency around understanding his willingness to convert at that point?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

See, that last part, that just kills me that you say. Because at first, I'm like, oh, actually, that sounded pretty nice. And what's his problem? But again, you're not saying he should go for it. And if I'm giving you some tough love feedback here, if your goal was to effectively communicate with your boyfriend...

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

See, that last part, that just kills me that you say. Because at first, I'm like, oh, actually, that sounded pretty nice. And what's his problem? But again, you're not saying he should go for it. And if I'm giving you some tough love feedback here, if your goal was to effectively communicate with your boyfriend...

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

See, that last part, that just kills me that you say. Because at first, I'm like, oh, actually, that sounded pretty nice. And what's his problem? But again, you're not saying he should go for it. And if I'm giving you some tough love feedback here, if your goal was to effectively communicate with your boyfriend...

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

you know, you're saying one thing and doing another, you know, you're saying go for it, but it's going to hurt your feelings. You know, it's like, and I understand that's your trying to be transparent. Sure. But I think there's just probably a more productive way for both of you. And I'm not putting this all on you.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

you know, you're saying one thing and doing another, you know, you're saying go for it, but it's going to hurt your feelings. You know, it's like, and I understand that's your trying to be transparent. Sure. But I think there's just probably a more productive way for both of you. And I'm not putting this all on you.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

you know, you're saying one thing and doing another, you know, you're saying go for it, but it's going to hurt your feelings. You know, it's like, and I understand that's your trying to be transparent. Sure. But I think there's just probably a more productive way for both of you. And I'm not putting this all on you.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I mean, at some point you guys need to sit down in these many conversations and just say, listen, like we both care about our jobs and that's awesome. You know, I don't, we're only dating now. We talk about getting married, but like, If we're going to be together, then at the end of the day, this is a good thing for both of us, regardless of what, assuming one of us get it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I mean, at some point you guys need to sit down in these many conversations and just say, listen, like we both care about our jobs and that's awesome. You know, I don't, we're only dating now. We talk about getting married, but like, If we're going to be together, then at the end of the day, this is a good thing for both of us, regardless of what, assuming one of us get it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I mean, at some point you guys need to sit down in these many conversations and just say, listen, like we both care about our jobs and that's awesome. You know, I don't, we're only dating now. We talk about getting married, but like, If we're going to be together, then at the end of the day, this is a good thing for both of us, regardless of what, assuming one of us get it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And if not, like, I guess we'll have bigger problems when it comes to you and I down the row when I realize, I guess, you know, but like, we both want this job. So let's both support each other and may the best person win. And whether you guys can decide whether you're going to study together, help each other, and literally go into the interviews back to back, like in the office when, you know,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And if not, like, I guess we'll have bigger problems when it comes to you and I down the row when I realize, I guess, you know, but like, we both want this job. So let's both support each other and may the best person win. And whether you guys can decide whether you're going to study together, help each other, and literally go into the interviews back to back, like in the office when, you know,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And if not, like, I guess we'll have bigger problems when it comes to you and I down the row when I realize, I guess, you know, but like, we both want this job. So let's both support each other and may the best person win. And whether you guys can decide whether you're going to study together, help each other, and literally go into the interviews back to back, like in the office when, you know,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Jim and Pam went for the same job. Or Jim and... Karen or... It was Karen. Karen. And truly just be like, yeah, good fucking luck. I definitely don't wish you get it because I want it, but good luck. And I'm proud of you. And you worked really hard on this. And you fucking deserve this. And you both say that to each other and just let it play out. I get it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Jim and Pam went for the same job. Or Jim and... Karen or... It was Karen. Karen. And truly just be like, yeah, good fucking luck. I definitely don't wish you get it because I want it, but good luck. And I'm proud of you. And you worked really hard on this. And you fucking deserve this. And you both say that to each other and just let it play out. I get it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Jim and Pam went for the same job. Or Jim and... Karen or... It was Karen. Karen. And truly just be like, yeah, good fucking luck. I definitely don't wish you get it because I want it, but good luck. And I'm proud of you. And you worked really hard on this. And you fucking deserve this. And you both say that to each other and just let it play out. I get it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And you being selfish was getting your boyfriend to pass on a job opportunity because they called you first?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And you being selfish was getting your boyfriend to pass on a job opportunity because they called you first?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And you being selfish was getting your boyfriend to pass on a job opportunity because they called you first?