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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And that's, that's you, like, listen, you just, I, you don't, you can disagree with me, but I'm telling you from a communicating standpoint, you essentially did tell him that. And you kept telling that. And the reason this man is sending you paragraphs of text after long conversations, he wanted your permission.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And that's, that's you, like, listen, you just, I, you don't, you can disagree with me, but I'm telling you from a communicating standpoint, you essentially did tell him that. And you kept telling that. And the reason this man is sending you paragraphs of text after long conversations, he wanted your permission.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And that's, that's you, like, listen, you just, I, you don't, you can disagree with me, but I'm telling you from a communicating standpoint, you essentially did tell him that. And you kept telling that. And the reason this man is sending you paragraphs of text after long conversations, he wanted your permission.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

He wanted to guilt-free move forward with this, like to go after this job because he didn't want to like feel like he was stealing something from his girlfriend. And he really wanted your permission and you never gave it to him because it always ended in a but.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

He wanted to guilt-free move forward with this, like to go after this job because he didn't want to like feel like he was stealing something from his girlfriend. And he really wanted your permission and you never gave it to him because it always ended in a but.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

He wanted to guilt-free move forward with this, like to go after this job because he didn't want to like feel like he was stealing something from his girlfriend. And he really wanted your permission and you never gave it to him because it always ended in a but.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And listen, there's no wrong, but you need to, like what you're doing, like what you're having a hard time is you still think you're more justified than him. And I don't think either of you are more justified than the other.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And listen, there's no wrong, but you need to, like what you're doing, like what you're having a hard time is you still think you're more justified than him. And I don't think either of you are more justified than the other.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And listen, there's no wrong, but you need to, like what you're doing, like what you're having a hard time is you still think you're more justified than him. And I don't think either of you are more justified than the other.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I mean, like this comes down to you got called first.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I mean, like this comes down to you got called first.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I mean, like this comes down to you got called first.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And you act like that matters.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And you act like that matters.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And you act like that matters.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

From a professional standpoint or from a partner standpoint. But the contradiction is, I get it. You're just like, listen, I don't know if you're gonna convert and therefore I don't know I'm gonna marry you. So like, I want this fucking job. you know?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

From a professional standpoint or from a partner standpoint. But the contradiction is, I get it. You're just like, listen, I don't know if you're gonna convert and therefore I don't know I'm gonna marry you. So like, I want this fucking job. you know?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

From a professional standpoint or from a partner standpoint. But the contradiction is, I get it. You're just like, listen, I don't know if you're gonna convert and therefore I don't know I'm gonna marry you. So like, I want this fucking job. you know?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

But he's also like, well, I don't know if I'm going to convert and I don't know if I'm going to marry you. So I want this fucking job. And you're, you know what I'm saying? Like you're asking him to, to do the same thing that you're, and that's all human, but you guys are both wanting the other person to give up on this thing that they want. And that's bullshit by both of you.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

But he's also like, well, I don't know if I'm going to convert and I don't know if I'm going to marry you. So I want this fucking job. And you're, you know what I'm saying? Like you're asking him to, to do the same thing that you're, and that's all human, but you guys are both wanting the other person to give up on this thing that they want. And that's bullshit by both of you.