Derek

But he's also like, well, I don't know if I'm going to convert and I don't know if I'm going to marry you. So I want this fucking job. And you're, you know what I'm saying? Like you're asking him to, to do the same thing that you're, and that's all human, but you guys are both wanting the other person to give up on this thing that they want. And that's bullshit by both of you.

And so the least you guys could do is just Shake each other's hands. Respect each other as lovers, as professionals, as people who believe in each other. And just like, you know what? May the best man win. Because it's like someone is going to win. And you should. You should. I don't care if it's your boyfriend or your colleague.

And so the least you guys could do is just Shake each other's hands. Respect each other as lovers, as professionals, as people who believe in each other. And just like, you know what? May the best man win. Because it's like someone is going to win. And you should. You should. I don't care if it's your boyfriend or your colleague.

And so the least you guys could do is just Shake each other's hands. Respect each other as lovers, as professionals, as people who believe in each other. And just like, you know what? May the best man win. Because it's like someone is going to win. And you should. You should. I don't care if it's your boyfriend or your colleague.

You should be able to compete, lose, and be happy for the person that beat you. And if you can't, that's definitely something you should work on. Yeah.

You should be able to compete, lose, and be happy for the person that beat you. And if you can't, that's definitely something you should work on. Yeah.

You should be able to compete, lose, and be happy for the person that beat you. And if you can't, that's definitely something you should work on. Yeah.

I think what it is, is I think you need to at least acknowledge that it's personal. And when we're personal, you're biased. You just want this. And that's totally fine. But like, it doesn't make you right. Right. And you think you're right.

I think what it is, is I think you need to at least acknowledge that it's personal. And when we're personal, you're biased. You just want this. And that's totally fine. But like, it doesn't make you right. Right. And you think you're right.

I think what it is, is I think you need to at least acknowledge that it's personal. And when we're personal, you're biased. You just want this. And that's totally fine. But like, it doesn't make you right. Right. And you think you're right.

Maybe that I feel this way, but you're discounting what he needed from his partner in that moment. And you were just thinking of yourself and that's fine. But like, you're trying to pretend to be his partner while only thinking of yourself.

Maybe that I feel this way, but you're discounting what he needed from his partner in that moment. And you were just thinking of yourself and that's fine. But like, you're trying to pretend to be his partner while only thinking of yourself.

Maybe that I feel this way, but you're discounting what he needed from his partner in that moment. And you were just thinking of yourself and that's fine. But like, you're trying to pretend to be his partner while only thinking of yourself.

I'm an unbiased part of you. That's kind of how I see it. But again, this is not like you have every right to feel how you feel and do what you want. And the fact that he's clear, you know, at this point, not willing to convert, like maybe that's your answer. And, you know, maybe there's some, maybe there's some, maybe you have a little bit of a, what imposter syndrome going.

I'm an unbiased part of you. That's kind of how I see it. But again, this is not like you have every right to feel how you feel and do what you want. And the fact that he's clear, you know, at this point, not willing to convert, like maybe that's your answer. And, you know, maybe there's some, maybe there's some, maybe you have a little bit of a, what imposter syndrome going.

I'm an unbiased part of you. That's kind of how I see it. But again, this is not like you have every right to feel how you feel and do what you want. And the fact that he's clear, you know, at this point, not willing to convert, like maybe that's your answer. And, you know, maybe there's some, maybe there's some, maybe you have a little bit of a, what imposter syndrome going.

Cause you think if I have to compete with him, he's going to win.

Cause you think if I have to compete with him, he's going to win.

Cause you think if I have to compete with him, he's going to win.

So, I mean, you know, you, but like, you know.