Derek

So, I mean, you know, you, but like, you know.

So, I mean, you know, you, but like, you know.

But that part of you that can acknowledge it is a part of you that needs to like, that's an ego thing. That is a. For sure. You know? And so you just, again, I'm just, I want you to make decisions being the most honest with yourself about why you're making these decisions. Because I don't. I don't care. And everything you're describing is very normal and it makes a lot of sense.

But that part of you that can acknowledge it is a part of you that needs to like, that's an ego thing. That is a. For sure. You know? And so you just, again, I'm just, I want you to make decisions being the most honest with yourself about why you're making these decisions. Because I don't. I don't care. And everything you're describing is very normal and it makes a lot of sense.

But that part of you that can acknowledge it is a part of you that needs to like, that's an ego thing. That is a. For sure. You know? And so you just, again, I'm just, I want you to make decisions being the most honest with yourself about why you're making these decisions. Because I don't. I don't care. And everything you're describing is very normal and it makes a lot of sense.

But I think what I'm trying to point out to you is there's a bit of contradiction coming from what you're saying. And I don't think you're willing to really see that because I think you want to get this job and you want him to be totally happy about it. And you want him to, let me ask you this. Let's say you compete and get this job. Then what?

But I think what I'm trying to point out to you is there's a bit of contradiction coming from what you're saying. And I don't think you're willing to really see that because I think you want to get this job and you want him to be totally happy about it. And you want him to, let me ask you this. Let's say you compete and get this job. Then what?

But I think what I'm trying to point out to you is there's a bit of contradiction coming from what you're saying. And I don't think you're willing to really see that because I think you want to get this job and you want him to be totally happy about it. And you want him to, let me ask you this. Let's say you compete and get this job. Then what?

Like if you knew that you were going to get this job ended up happening and I got it, but well, that should tell you something too. You know, like a lot of your actions are, are assuming an outcome that a even hasn't happened yet. And if, and if, if it doesn't happen the way, then, then you kind of all this for nothing. from both ends of you guys.

Like if you knew that you were going to get this job ended up happening and I got it, but well, that should tell you something too. You know, like a lot of your actions are, are assuming an outcome that a even hasn't happened yet. And if, and if, if it doesn't happen the way, then, then you kind of all this for nothing. from both ends of you guys.

Like if you knew that you were going to get this job ended up happening and I got it, but well, that should tell you something too. You know, like a lot of your actions are, are assuming an outcome that a even hasn't happened yet. And if, and if, if it doesn't happen the way, then, then you kind of all this for nothing. from both ends of you guys.

I'm curious, did he ever ask, because it was a lot of him asking your permission, but you never really asked. You getting called a month before, we all feel entitled to various things, but it's giving you a sense of entitlement to this position that you don't think he is entitled to. And when we feel entitled to things, then we just lose objectivity.

I'm curious, did he ever ask, because it was a lot of him asking your permission, but you never really asked. You getting called a month before, we all feel entitled to various things, but it's giving you a sense of entitlement to this position that you don't think he is entitled to. And when we feel entitled to things, then we just lose objectivity.

I'm curious, did he ever ask, because it was a lot of him asking your permission, but you never really asked. You getting called a month before, we all feel entitled to various things, but it's giving you a sense of entitlement to this position that you don't think he is entitled to. And when we feel entitled to things, then we just lose objectivity.

That's why I'm sorry. Why can't you, acknowledging it's a complex situation, knowing that we can sit there and go back and forth and

That's why I'm sorry. Why can't you, acknowledging it's a complex situation, knowing that we can sit there and go back and forth and

That's why I'm sorry. Why can't you, acknowledging it's a complex situation, knowing that we can sit there and go back and forth and

like you and your ex did kind of just break it down and analyze it and go back and forth and yada yada why can't you just acknowledge this is a complex situation and there's a million different ways to look at it and no one really is right or wrong so therefore let the mess man win because like that's at least the only a fair way you know what i guess my version of doing that

like you and your ex did kind of just break it down and analyze it and go back and forth and yada yada why can't you just acknowledge this is a complex situation and there's a million different ways to look at it and no one really is right or wrong so therefore let the mess man win because like that's at least the only a fair way you know what i guess my version of doing that

like you and your ex did kind of just break it down and analyze it and go back and forth and yada yada why can't you just acknowledge this is a complex situation and there's a million different ways to look at it and no one really is right or wrong so therefore let the mess man win because like that's at least the only a fair way you know what i guess my version of doing that