Derek

And that side, and I say this with love, you're very stubborn and, and just whether it was like, I can see, I can see a world where like the converting in this job, like you just, it was very easy for you to ask some pretty big asks from him. And I'm just wondering if you fully grasp that. And if I'm hearing, I do. Okay. But like, I'm just, I can, I, I don't know if I don't know if you do.

And that side, and I say this with love, you're very stubborn and, and just whether it was like, I can see, I can see a world where like the converting in this job, like you just, it was very easy for you to ask some pretty big asks from him. And I'm just wondering if you fully grasp that. And if I'm hearing, I do. Okay. But like, I'm just, I can, I, I don't know if I don't know if you do.

And that side, and I say this with love, you're very stubborn and, and just whether it was like, I can see, I can see a world where like the converting in this job, like you just, it was very easy for you to ask some pretty big asks from him. And I'm just wondering if you fully grasp that. And if I'm hearing, I do. Okay. But like, I'm just, I can, I, I don't know if I don't know if you do.

I don't I honestly don't know if you do, because the way you you kind of debated me so much about this job thing and the fact that you still like we're like, but I'm right. And I got called first. The fact that you you you still can't really see that you have a blind spot, I feel like when it comes to that.

I don't I honestly don't know if you do, because the way you you kind of debated me so much about this job thing and the fact that you still like we're like, but I'm right. And I got called first. The fact that you you you still can't really see that you have a blind spot, I feel like when it comes to that.

I don't I honestly don't know if you do, because the way you you kind of debated me so much about this job thing and the fact that you still like we're like, but I'm right. And I got called first. The fact that you you you still can't really see that you have a blind spot, I feel like when it comes to that.

and perhaps i think it's one thing to just like proclaim i get it i'm asking him a lot and really like in the heat of the moment when you guys are at a point of disconnecting your relationship acknowledge yourself hey maybe i need to take one for the team here because i've really asked a lot of the team and i'm i'm wondering if maybe you're not as good at that as you think you might be.

and perhaps i think it's one thing to just like proclaim i get it i'm asking him a lot and really like in the heat of the moment when you guys are at a point of disconnecting your relationship acknowledge yourself hey maybe i need to take one for the team here because i've really asked a lot of the team and i'm i'm wondering if maybe you're not as good at that as you think you might be.

and perhaps i think it's one thing to just like proclaim i get it i'm asking him a lot and really like in the heat of the moment when you guys are at a point of disconnecting your relationship acknowledge yourself hey maybe i need to take one for the team here because i've really asked a lot of the team and i'm i'm wondering if maybe you're not as good at that as you think you might be.

And I can't help but wonder if some of his like frustrations and things that bottle up and when he was kind of throwing out things, you're like, what? Came from a place of like, really feel like you were just like really good at asking a lot of things from him. And maybe he didn't have much to ask of you.

And I can't help but wonder if some of his like frustrations and things that bottle up and when he was kind of throwing out things, you're like, what? Came from a place of like, really feel like you were just like really good at asking a lot of things from him. And maybe he didn't have much to ask of you.

And I can't help but wonder if some of his like frustrations and things that bottle up and when he was kind of throwing out things, you're like, what? Came from a place of like, really feel like you were just like really good at asking a lot of things from him. And maybe he didn't have much to ask of you.

But like, it just seemed really easy for you to ask a lot from him where this guy was just like, she's just like, it's never fucking enough. And what else? Like, and she's asking me to convert and I got to do this and I got to do that. And it's just like, Jesus, I love her, but fuck.

But like, it just seemed really easy for you to ask a lot from him where this guy was just like, she's just like, it's never fucking enough. And what else? Like, and she's asking me to convert and I got to do this and I got to do that. And it's just like, Jesus, I love her, but fuck.

But like, it just seemed really easy for you to ask a lot from him where this guy was just like, she's just like, it's never fucking enough. And what else? Like, and she's asking me to convert and I got to do this and I got to do that. And it's just like, Jesus, I love her, but fuck.

And I'm just wondering if maybe you, you know, like just some blind spots you could work on a little bit because it sounds like there's a lot of love here. And it sounds like this is a very complex, like you said, it is very nuanced, you know, the job conversation is very nuanced.

And I'm just wondering if maybe you, you know, like just some blind spots you could work on a little bit because it sounds like there's a lot of love here. And it sounds like this is a very complex, like you said, it is very nuanced, you know, the job conversation is very nuanced.

And I'm just wondering if maybe you, you know, like just some blind spots you could work on a little bit because it sounds like there's a lot of love here. And it sounds like this is a very complex, like you said, it is very nuanced, you know, the job conversation is very nuanced.

Converting is very nuanced, but I don't think you are as good as having nuanced conversations, especially ones that are very personal to you. Uh, and that you have a lot of emotionally invested in the outcome, you know, like most of us, like it's hard to be nuanced when you give a shit about the outcome. And I think, yeah. Um,

Converting is very nuanced, but I don't think you are as good as having nuanced conversations, especially ones that are very personal to you. Uh, and that you have a lot of emotionally invested in the outcome, you know, like most of us, like it's hard to be nuanced when you give a shit about the outcome. And I think, yeah. Um,