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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Converting is very nuanced, but I don't think you are as good as having nuanced conversations, especially ones that are very personal to you. Uh, and that you have a lot of emotionally invested in the outcome, you know, like most of us, like it's hard to be nuanced when you give a shit about the outcome. And I think, yeah. Um,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I hear you. But it's just like bad timing, maybe good timing. I don't know. Because like, listen, if you, you know, like bad time, it worked out, but like, maybe hopefully this is a pivot. Like, I hope this one way or the other, you learn something from it. I don't know what you should, you know, there's something to learn here, you know?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I hear you. But it's just like bad timing, maybe good timing. I don't know. Because like, listen, if you, you know, like bad time, it worked out, but like, maybe hopefully this is a pivot. Like, I hope this one way or the other, you learn something from it. I don't know what you should, you know, there's something to learn here, you know?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I hear you. But it's just like bad timing, maybe good timing. I don't know. Because like, listen, if you, you know, like bad time, it worked out, but like, maybe hopefully this is a pivot. Like, I hope this one way or the other, you learn something from it. I don't know what you should, you know, there's something to learn here, you know?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I'm really curious if you ever listened to this episode and knew it was about him, what he would think.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I'm really curious if you ever listened to this episode and knew it was about him, what he would think.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I'm really curious if you ever listened to this episode and knew it was about him, what he would think.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's like, and again, back to when we're talking converting, right? Like, yeah. Talking to you, it's like you can say, I'm not even religious. I don't really need a lot from my boyfriend to convert. But I do have these like just a handful of like just things I want. Why? I don't know. I just fucking do because I feel this way. And you feel very justified to say that.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's like, and again, back to when we're talking converting, right? Like, yeah. Talking to you, it's like you can say, I'm not even religious. I don't really need a lot from my boyfriend to convert. But I do have these like just a handful of like just things I want. Why? I don't know. I just fucking do because I feel this way. And you feel very justified to say that.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's like, and again, back to when we're talking converting, right? Like, yeah. Talking to you, it's like you can say, I'm not even religious. I don't really need a lot from my boyfriend to convert. But I do have these like just a handful of like just things I want. Why? I don't know. I just fucking do because I feel this way. And you feel very justified to say that.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And very entitled to say that, even though you can acknowledge that they, you know what I'm saying? When I'm like, well, why can't you go drive by? You know, it's just like, you just don't want to. And you want him to just meet those, well, I just do demands. And I think, you know, you win a lot of the, I just want to get my way arguments. And he concedes probably most of those.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And very entitled to say that, even though you can acknowledge that they, you know what I'm saying? When I'm like, well, why can't you go drive by? You know, it's just like, you just don't want to. And you want him to just meet those, well, I just do demands. And I think, you know, you win a lot of the, I just want to get my way arguments. And he concedes probably most of those.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And very entitled to say that, even though you can acknowledge that they, you know what I'm saying? When I'm like, well, why can't you go drive by? You know, it's just like, you just don't want to. And you want him to just meet those, well, I just do demands. And I think, you know, you win a lot of the, I just want to get my way arguments. And he concedes probably most of those.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And I think he got tired of conceding. And even the ones that felt trivial.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And I think he got tired of conceding. And even the ones that felt trivial.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And I think he got tired of conceding. And even the ones that felt trivial.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's still time to change.