Desi Perkins

I'm like, why are you doing this to him?

He's going to be such a diva now because you're doing this.

Little prince.

That's what grandparents do, though.

They flip the switch all the time.

So sometimes they'll really want me and sometimes they really want Ocean.

I mean, Steven.

Yeah.

Well, that's good.

no no sometimes they're like i don't want to go to grandma's house i want to stay here with you like he hates when we have to work and you know if we're somewhere he's like i don't want to he can always like sense it probably yeah he really just decides who he wants to be with all the time it's always someone different some days it's grandma sometimes it's me which is nice you know what's funny is their little puppet masters and you're just a puppet and they talk to us all different like they know how to play each of us separately like really yeah in what way like

you know, he'll say the way he talks to my mom is very different than the way he talks to me.

Or like the way he talks to Steven, he'll be a little bit more like baby talk and like whiny.

But with me, he won't do that.

Cause like he knows Steven how to play him.

Like that'll work on him.

He'll be like, mommy, you're so beautiful.

Can I have a pretzel?

I think what I tell myself personally is to try and stop being the person you were before kids because we are ever evolving and it is a grieving period because you're grieving the person you were, but you should be celebrating this next chapter of your life and the person that you're becoming because there's so many beautiful moments that come with all this chaos.

And

trying to hold on to what you were before, that'll cripple you a little bit.