Devale Ellis

She was like, babe, I saw this bag. And I'm like, why are you asking me? You got your money and your money.

And she's like, no, I just want to make sure that we are good. And I tell her, by the time it gets to that account, which is your account, you don't got to ask no fucking questions. Yeah. Because I'm not asking no questions. If I'm going to plan something for you and surprise you, I don't want you to know what I'm surprised.

And she's like, no, I just want to make sure that we are good. And I tell her, by the time it gets to that account, which is your account, you don't got to ask no fucking questions. Yeah. Because I'm not asking no questions. If I'm going to plan something for you and surprise you, I don't want you to know what I'm surprised.

And she's like, no, I just want to make sure that we are good. And I tell her, by the time it gets to that account, which is your account, you don't got to ask no fucking questions. Yeah. Because I'm not asking no questions. If I'm going to plan something for you and surprise you, I don't want you to know what I'm surprised.

My vice is not her vice. I like cars. Okay. I like cars. She likes bags and shoes and trips. Mm-hmm. I don't want her to have to, she's an individual. Imagine somebody, baby, can I buy? Get the fuck out. No, you're an adult and she works.

My vice is not her vice. I like cars. Okay. I like cars. She likes bags and shoes and trips. Mm-hmm. I don't want her to have to, she's an individual. Imagine somebody, baby, can I buy? Get the fuck out. No, you're an adult and she works.

My vice is not her vice. I like cars. Okay. I like cars. She likes bags and shoes and trips. Mm-hmm. I don't want her to have to, she's an individual. Imagine somebody, baby, can I buy? Get the fuck out. No, you're an adult and she works.

She works. So you have your money that goes to you. I got my money that goes to you. But ultimately, the estate building and the legacy building is already done before it gets to that point. So at that point, there's no arguments because we've already taken care of the kids and ourselves. And the truth is, I made that a... a priority when we first got together.

She works. So you have your money that goes to you. I got my money that goes to you. But ultimately, the estate building and the legacy building is already done before it gets to that point. So at that point, there's no arguments because we've already taken care of the kids and ourselves. And the truth is, I made that a... a priority when we first got together.

She works. So you have your money that goes to you. I got my money that goes to you. But ultimately, the estate building and the legacy building is already done before it gets to that point. So at that point, there's no arguments because we've already taken care of the kids and ourselves. And the truth is, I made that a... a priority when we first got together.

I told her, I said, yo, if we going to live together and be together, we got to be able to discuss finances.

I told her, I said, yo, if we going to live together and be together, we got to be able to discuss finances.

I told her, I said, yo, if we going to live together and be together, we got to be able to discuss finances.

Then be a partner.

Then be a partner.

Then be a partner.

But you also realize that the uncomfortable conversations you're having isn't because that person just wants to be defiant. It's because y'all grew up differently. And I learned that my father-in-law never discussed with my wife finances. He was the breadwinner. Well, he wasn't. Well, this is another thing. My wife's mom was the breadwinner.

But you also realize that the uncomfortable conversations you're having isn't because that person just wants to be defiant. It's because y'all grew up differently. And I learned that my father-in-law never discussed with my wife finances. He was the breadwinner. Well, he wasn't. Well, this is another thing. My wife's mom was the breadwinner.

But you also realize that the uncomfortable conversations you're having isn't because that person just wants to be defiant. It's because y'all grew up differently. And I learned that my father-in-law never discussed with my wife finances. He was the breadwinner. Well, he wasn't. Well, this is another thing. My wife's mom was the breadwinner.

Jamaican woman came over, became a nurse, director of nursing. She made over $150,000 a year.