Devorah Roloff

I really have been wanting to have somebody on the show to speak about the aftermath and the effects of an abortion because, you know, like I think that some people might get one and feel like, okay, this was the right decision.

Even if they do feel that way.

it could still hurt.

And I think that it's important for people to know that it isn't just this cut and dry thing.

And sometimes you don't even know how it's going to make you feel until after you do it, which is the hard part.

You know, like it can seem like a very black and white situation and then you do it.

And that is a big thing.

You

And it's scary and there's a lot of emotions held there.

And I think that there's so many, I tell people this too, I know I said it kind of in the beginning and every other episode as well and on my calls, but there's always somebody that can relate to different parts of your story, different aspects of your story.

And that's the beauty of

sharing stories, sharing different aspects of it.

That's why when I invite people on this show, I'm like, please share every part of your life, you know, because there's somebody that will hear that and be like, I felt that way or I went through that.

And it's important.

And even with the failure aspect of, you know, the adoption, it's like,

That could easily be something where you just want to give up because it is so draining.

Right.

But the outcome was so beautiful, you know, and I know it's like people don't always want to hear it, but things do happen for a reason.

Things don't work out and do work out to get you to where you're supposed to be.

And I think that, you know, once again, kind of going back to what I said in the beginning as well, you know, you've built this beautiful life for yourself.