Dhru Purohit

We need to have love maps, meaning we need to understand our partner's interests, dreams, hobbies, what keeps them up at night, what they're interested in, what's frustrating them, what they're up against, right?

Because if we can have that, it's often not so much about, okay, you're doing the dishes and I'm vacuuming.

Although there is research showing that men who vacuum have more sex in their relationships than

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Exactly.

But there's never going to be a perfect split.

But when there's gratitude and a development of I want to know what your love map is and I want to know what drives you and what you're passionate about, that's going to lead to better intimacy, right?

We all, at the end of the day...

So, first of all, normalizing that, right?

There's going to be a certain level of sexual desire discrepancy in every single relationship.

Yeah, that's 100% normal.

That's 100% normal.

And it's, you know, it starts out as, you know, looking at their sort of different types of discrepancies that exist, right?

So if it is something about,

you're a morning person and they prefer having sex at night.

It's about understanding that not all of the sex that you have has to be the same.

And so it's just sitting down and having a conversation with your partner about that.

And again, if you're planning intimacy and you know that each of you has different times when you're more likely to feel turned on,

You know, that person who is, you know, an early morning person, maybe their partner is never going to want to feel like they're up for sex at 7.30 in the morning.

But maybe they go to brunch like your other friend did, and they find that it's a before noon thing, right?