Dhru Purohit

But also sex, right?

What's our sex life going to look like?

Is it something that we are going to prioritize?

How are we going to make sure that we are putting sex on the calendar and prioritizing intimacy?

Yes, absolutely, 100%.

That is something...

That you should be agreeing to early on in the marriage.

And I do agree with, I think, what you're saying, which is that if one person just 20 years in the relationship is like, I'm opting out of sex.

You have nothing to say with this.

I'm just not a sexual person.

I don't want as much as you.

I don't want to talk about it.

Exactly.

It's not my thing.

I've had so many people, men mostly, reach out to me over social media complaining about this, right?

And so, of course, I don't think that that is okay, right?

And I think that there's sort of two sides to this because on the one hand, my initial reaction is there's something going on with

her, whether it is there's something deeper, right?

There's some kind of deeper resentment in the relationship or so much research coming out about perimenopause and menopause.

Maybe they've gotten to a place where she'd really benefit from hormone replacement therapy.