Dhru Purohit

And instead, and it's like stages of grief.

You kind of have to go through your different levels of grief to actually fully go through the healing process.

So I'm sure there's stages of that in everything, but especially what you're talking about here with menopause.

But the feeling of like,

The wisdom that's so, you know, if you watch movies like Avatar, anything that shows the epitome of the matriarch in a tribe who's so wise and understands, you know,

you had to kind of go through these rites of passages to get there.

And when you stopped fighting against it and you actually understood that this was the design of the whole thing, and that also means that you can change your circumstances right now, now there's a...

there's like a mother earth type energy where you understand that it's like, great, this is what happened.

And now this is what we can create into what happened.

And there's a male version of that as well too.

The male elder, the understanding, the compassion for people around there.

So that's a big smorgasbord to say of just the forgiveness that I hope that anybody can give to themselves in any stage.

that even if things didn't go the way you didn't want to, you were doing the best you can.

And now, if you're not carrying that weight along with you, now it's a question of like, what do I need?

What do you need now?

If you weren't blaming everybody else or yourself for how things went, what do you need now?

And let's give that attention and love.

Yeah, what do you need now?

And if you want to be an ally to anybody inside of the space, you can ask them, hey, what do you need now?

What do you need now?