Diego Perez (Yung Pueblo)

We both listen selflessly. I do my best in the moments where when she's sharing her perspective, reminding myself that like,

We both listen selflessly. I do my best in the moments where when she's sharing her perspective, reminding myself that like,

We both listen selflessly. I do my best in the moments where when she's sharing her perspective, reminding myself that like,

i don't need to hang on to my view i can just fully listen i'm safe i don't need to see her as my enemy and in the act of that going back and forth both people giving each other that ability to listen selflessly over time even if it's like you know 20 minutes an hour we figure out oh there is a bridge here between us like i'm i'm seeing what happened to you and when we could both see each other

i don't need to hang on to my view i can just fully listen i'm safe i don't need to see her as my enemy and in the act of that going back and forth both people giving each other that ability to listen selflessly over time even if it's like you know 20 minutes an hour we figure out oh there is a bridge here between us like i'm i'm seeing what happened to you and when we could both see each other

i don't need to hang on to my view i can just fully listen i'm safe i don't need to see her as my enemy and in the act of that going back and forth both people giving each other that ability to listen selflessly over time even if it's like you know 20 minutes an hour we figure out oh there is a bridge here between us like i'm i'm seeing what happened to you and when we could both see each other

it does ultimately melt away. And still, there are times where like, you know, one of us has to apologize and all that. But what we found pretty consistently, even if I said something to her, usually the person who feels aggrieved also throws some fire onto it as well and makes the argument even bigger.

it does ultimately melt away. And still, there are times where like, you know, one of us has to apologize and all that. But what we found pretty consistently, even if I said something to her, usually the person who feels aggrieved also throws some fire onto it as well and makes the argument even bigger.

it does ultimately melt away. And still, there are times where like, you know, one of us has to apologize and all that. But what we found pretty consistently, even if I said something to her, usually the person who feels aggrieved also throws some fire onto it as well and makes the argument even bigger.

So oftentimes, like both of us end up apologizing in some way because both of us, you know, owned up to some mistakes.

So oftentimes, like both of us end up apologizing in some way because both of us, you know, owned up to some mistakes.

So oftentimes, like both of us end up apologizing in some way because both of us, you know, owned up to some mistakes.

You know, and I think I like how you explain that beautifully. And I feel like the thing that has been newly added, I think even in the past, like two years for my wife and I is trying to make sure that the both of us are living in our individual energy.

You know, and I think I like how you explain that beautifully. And I feel like the thing that has been newly added, I think even in the past, like two years for my wife and I is trying to make sure that the both of us are living in our individual energy.

You know, and I think I like how you explain that beautifully. And I feel like the thing that has been newly added, I think even in the past, like two years for my wife and I is trying to make sure that the both of us are living in our individual energy.

If I'm irritable and I'm trying to figure out some way for my wife to join me in that irritability, she just says no and she just stays in her own energy and vice versa. And I think it's been really valuable in difficult moments because like a lot of life is just problem solving.

If I'm irritable and I'm trying to figure out some way for my wife to join me in that irritability, she just says no and she just stays in her own energy and vice versa. And I think it's been really valuable in difficult moments because like a lot of life is just problem solving.

If I'm irritable and I'm trying to figure out some way for my wife to join me in that irritability, she just says no and she just stays in her own energy and vice versa. And I think it's been really valuable in difficult moments because like a lot of life is just problem solving.

you know like i feel like once my wife and i spent a lot of time cultivating a better relationship between the two of us after that you know there's still like you know family members getting sick like this problem happens over here this problem happens over there and we're just solving problems together that's what like the last two decades you know the last like decade and a half has been for us it's hard but i think the key thing is

you know like i feel like once my wife and i spent a lot of time cultivating a better relationship between the two of us after that you know there's still like you know family members getting sick like this problem happens over here this problem happens over there and we're just solving problems together that's what like the last two decades you know the last like decade and a half has been for us it's hard but i think the key thing is