Diego Perez (Yung Pueblo)

So being aware that that will affect your patterns and how you show up in a relationship that calls you in to be able to embrace your growth so that you can undo those heavy patterns and you can build new ones that are actually much more supportive of your own happiness and your partner's.

So being aware that that will affect your patterns and how you show up in a relationship that calls you in to be able to embrace your growth so that you can undo those heavy patterns and you can build new ones that are actually much more supportive of your own happiness and your partner's.

Yeah. And remembering that your partner is not your enemy.

Yeah. And remembering that your partner is not your enemy.

Yeah. And remembering that your partner is not your enemy.

Like you got to remind yourself. Sometimes it feels like, sometimes it feels like it's like I'm in danger, like, but you're not, you're okay. Like, even if you lose the argument, even if you have to apologize, you're all good. Remind yourself that this person is one of the dopest people in your life. They're amazing.

Like you got to remind yourself. Sometimes it feels like, sometimes it feels like it's like I'm in danger, like, but you're not, you're okay. Like, even if you lose the argument, even if you have to apologize, you're all good. Remind yourself that this person is one of the dopest people in your life. They're amazing.

Like you got to remind yourself. Sometimes it feels like, sometimes it feels like it's like I'm in danger, like, but you're not, you're okay. Like, even if you lose the argument, even if you have to apologize, you're all good. Remind yourself that this person is one of the dopest people in your life. They're amazing.

And we didn't know this, right? When we got into the relationship, so my wife and I got together super young. She was 18 and I was 19. I would say the first six years of our relationship were a giant blame game.

And we didn't know this, right? When we got into the relationship, so my wife and I got together super young. She was 18 and I was 19. I would say the first six years of our relationship were a giant blame game.

And we didn't know this, right? When we got into the relationship, so my wife and I got together super young. She was 18 and I was 19. I would say the first six years of our relationship were a giant blame game.

like it was whenever i would feel tension in my mind my mind would try to figure out why it's her fault and she would do the same to me and we would just go back and forth back and forth constantly trying to win both of us losing all the time until we started meditating and building like when we went into meditating because we wanted to work on ourselves as individuals so i went to meditating because i wanted to save myself like i had so much sadness so much anxiety that my mind just felt like it was like a thousand times right just felt so heavy all the time i was

like it was whenever i would feel tension in my mind my mind would try to figure out why it's her fault and she would do the same to me and we would just go back and forth back and forth constantly trying to win both of us losing all the time until we started meditating and building like when we went into meditating because we wanted to work on ourselves as individuals so i went to meditating because i wanted to save myself like i had so much sadness so much anxiety that my mind just felt like it was like a thousand times right just felt so heavy all the time i was

like it was whenever i would feel tension in my mind my mind would try to figure out why it's her fault and she would do the same to me and we would just go back and forth back and forth constantly trying to win both of us losing all the time until we started meditating and building like when we went into meditating because we wanted to work on ourselves as individuals so i went to meditating because i wanted to save myself like i had so much sadness so much anxiety that my mind just felt like it was like a thousand times right just felt so heavy all the time i was

shocked that I went into meditating to save myself. I started building these qualities, patience, understanding, listening to myself better, accepting myself. And then I come out of the meditation retreat and I turn to my wife and I'm realizing, oh, these are the same qualities I need to bring into my relationship. They're not just for me. There's a total bridge there where I'm building them.

shocked that I went into meditating to save myself. I started building these qualities, patience, understanding, listening to myself better, accepting myself. And then I come out of the meditation retreat and I turn to my wife and I'm realizing, oh, these are the same qualities I need to bring into my relationship. They're not just for me. There's a total bridge there where I'm building them.

shocked that I went into meditating to save myself. I started building these qualities, patience, understanding, listening to myself better, accepting myself. And then I come out of the meditation retreat and I turn to my wife and I'm realizing, oh, these are the same qualities I need to bring into my relationship. They're not just for me. There's a total bridge there where I'm building them.

They're helping me, these qualities, but they're absolutely useful in the moments where we're having trouble.

They're helping me, these qualities, but they're absolutely useful in the moments where we're having trouble.

They're helping me, these qualities, but they're absolutely useful in the moments where we're having trouble.