Diego Perez

Yeah, and I think everything is hyper situational, right?

Like the way your relationship has harmony and the way your relationship struggles can be quite unique from anybody else's relationship.

But I think that especially with intimacy, with individuality, with moving forward and freedom, it just requires...

not hardened rules, but it requires consistent communication so that you just know where your partner's at and you know that you don't need to hide your truth.

As you're evolving, as your preferences are changing, because the way that your partner may have wanted their happiness to be supported last year, five years ago, 10 years ago, can be drastically different.

I mean, my wife and I, we have this experience where whenever we go away to a 45-day meditation retreat,

45 day.

Yeah.

Yeah.

We've done a few with the two 45 days, three 30 days.

But Dan, when we come out, it's like, I'm meeting a whole new person.

You know, we come out, we don't know the way our preferences have shifted over that time because you're just, you're burning so much conditioning so fast and you come out and the world feels very fresh, very new.

And it takes almost like a month and a half to two months where we're like getting to know ourselves and each other.

And we're not,

holding this current version and comparing it to the old version.

And we're just letting each other evolve.

And it's happened so many times where, you know, we come out and like, we just have different priorities as individuals, you know, compared to what we wanted before, even like down to like our taste of what we want to watch on TV or where we want to go on trips or, or how we want to design our lives.

And it's honestly just been a joyful moment where it's like, you know, I want to get to know this person again, cause they're fresh and new.

Yeah.

Yeah, exactly.