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Doctor Mike

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

I'm in love, brother.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

But my wife might just be like weirdly mad at me.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

After we're done, I'm going to call her up and say, honey, I just talked to Dr. Mike.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

She says, yeah, well-

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

the dishwasher was still full when you left this, or it won't be that because we're past that.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

But the whole point is it's complex, which is why I love my marriage.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

And so all these complexities, they exist with, and there are a lot of different theories in neuroscience about what part of the brain is governing, why the differences in the hemispheres exist to govern a complex versus complicated.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

But the fact remains that religious experience is largely right hemispheric, romantic love, right hemispheric, nature, beauty, right hemispheric, suffering, largely right hemispheric.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

And when we get away from our ability to cope with these things, to experience these things, we don't experience the richness in life, the mystery in life.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

I'm not a master of psychology.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

I'm just getting through the day, man.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

Yeah, what is love?

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

The love, according to, well, this is an Aristotelian definition, which is the best, sort of through the great medieval philosophers who were Aristotelians.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

They defined love, and this would be Maimonides, Averroes, Thomas Aquinas, the great Southern European Abrahamic philosophers of the time.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

They defined love as to will the good of the other, which is really interesting because it doesn't have anything to do with feelings, does it?

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

Yeah, to will the good of the other.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

And that means that's all different kinds of love.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

English is horrible for love because we've got one word.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

In Spanish, we have two, amar y querer.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

In Russian, how many words are there for love?