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Don Martin

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462 total appearances

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

Yes, absolutely.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

You're hitting the nail on the head.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

Absolutely.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

Young people, like I said, whoever the youngest people are in society at the time are pretty much always the loneliest people.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

And they're always left out of loneliness conversations.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

When we talk about loneliness, we talk about loneliness with the elderly.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

We talk about it as though it's an inevitability of our lives, as though we're going to, we get our driver's licenses, we get our right to drink, we get our right to a hotel room, we get our right to

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

own a car, we buy a house, we get married, we have kids, and then eventually everybody dies and moves away and we become lonely.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

And that's an inevitability.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

But the thing is, we start our lives lonely because we do not have places to welcome kids into society.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

We don't have good models for how to introduce them to others.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

And in fact, in the last 25 years, especially here in the United States, ever since 9-11, 2001, we've had from a top-down

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

systemic issue where we are teaching kids fear, fear of the other, fear of strangers, fear of the unknown.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

And we are teaching that to one another.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

We have generation over generation, not just not knowing how to model connection with other people, but modeling that the idea of a stranger, the idea of somebody that you don't know is inherently dangerous, is inherently something to be afraid of.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

And that fear, that lack of connection, that is all living together.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

But yeah, 100%, when you're talking about millions and millions of kids and CDC data and all of that, yes, absolutely.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

This is all the same conversation.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

Oh no, it's everywhere.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
Don Martin on Why We’re Never Meant to Go Through Life Alone | EP 695

It's just other countries outside of the US have taken it a little bit more seriously than we have.