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Dr. Allan Schore

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
705 total appearances

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Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

It could be a stay-at-home dad who literally has a good right brain, and maybe a couple are figuring out that literally he'd be better in that position, but it needs that right brain. But other than that, what happens here, when it goes now into the second year, toward the end of the second year, and the father comes online, got me?

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

At that point in time, the father now becomes a primary attachment figure also. But he has some differences the way that he's dealing with that baby. He's usually more arousing with that baby and that the play is more arousing with that baby.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

At that point in time, the father now becomes a primary attachment figure also. But he has some differences the way that he's dealing with that baby. He's usually more arousing with that baby and that the play is more arousing with that baby.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

At that point in time, the father now becomes a primary attachment figure also. But he has some differences the way that he's dealing with that baby. He's usually more arousing with that baby and that the play is more arousing with that baby.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

Exactly. You're dealing with more upregulation and being able to tolerate more hyper-aroused states. Because in the second year, one of the things that the father will do with the infant is with toddler, infant, first year, toddler, second year. Rough and tumble play, for example. Rough and tumble play. So the father is that.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

Exactly. You're dealing with more upregulation and being able to tolerate more hyper-aroused states. Because in the second year, one of the things that the father will do with the infant is with toddler, infant, first year, toddler, second year. Rough and tumble play, for example. Rough and tumble play. So the father is that.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

Exactly. You're dealing with more upregulation and being able to tolerate more hyper-aroused states. Because in the second year, one of the things that the father will do with the infant is with toddler, infant, first year, toddler, second year. Rough and tumble play, for example. Rough and tumble play. So the father is that.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So the father literally is now teaching the child literally how to take risks. But the father is now moving more towards autonomy and independence. The mother was there at the beginning about interactive regulation. So the father is playing that role.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So the father literally is now teaching the child literally how to take risks. But the father is now moving more towards autonomy and independence. The mother was there at the beginning about interactive regulation. So the father is playing that role.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So the father literally is now teaching the child literally how to take risks. But the father is now moving more towards autonomy and independence. The mother was there at the beginning about interactive regulation. So the father is playing that role.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And I've also suggested that just as the mother is shaping that baby's right brain in the first year, the father is now shaping that baby's left brain towards the end of the first year, second, and into the third year. that he's shaping that baby's, his left brain to that baby's left brain. That being the case, he may also earlier on have had good experiences with that baby early on in life.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And I've also suggested that just as the mother is shaping that baby's right brain in the first year, the father is now shaping that baby's left brain towards the end of the first year, second, and into the third year. that he's shaping that baby's, his left brain to that baby's left brain. That being the case, he may also earlier on have had good experiences with that baby early on in life.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And I've also suggested that just as the mother is shaping that baby's right brain in the first year, the father is now shaping that baby's left brain towards the end of the first year, second, and into the third year. that he's shaping that baby's, his left brain to that baby's left brain. That being the case, he may also earlier on have had good experiences with that baby early on in life.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And a good example of that would be a father who was tender, tender, yet at the same time is instrumental and is teaching things about the world. So one brain is shaped by the mother figure, the brother by the father figure.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And a good example of that would be a father who was tender, tender, yet at the same time is instrumental and is teaching things about the world. So one brain is shaped by the mother figure, the brother by the father figure.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

And a good example of that would be a father who was tender, tender, yet at the same time is instrumental and is teaching things about the world. So one brain is shaped by the mother figure, the brother by the father figure.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

You know, I think what's happening in that kind of situation is the person is initially providing the right brain and then that person is now providing the left brain.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

You know, I think what's happening in that kind of situation is the person is initially providing the right brain and then that person is now providing the left brain.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

You know, I think what's happening in that kind of situation is the person is initially providing the right brain and then that person is now providing the left brain.

Huberman Lab
How Relationships Shape Your Brain | Dr. Allan Schore

So let's say a single woman with a child, her right brain is there on the get, but then in the second year, and incidentally there may be father figures or family members who also can step into that, but essentially her left brain is there also. Remember, we both have right brains and left brains.