Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

So what I mean is, like, I don't mean that as in, like, oh, I work at Instagram.

You're the Venn diagram.

I mean, like, literally, like, if we were to describe the features, if I were to list features of cute, so you mentioned, like, you know, you're small.

Like, you have a very bright smile, the pitch of your voice, the way that you talk, the way that you even emote and respond.

So when I say something, your expression of enthusiasm is not, like, locked in.

Right?

It's, like, it's effulgent.

Like in a good way.

Like I think it's very like warm and bubbly I think is a really good word.

So there's absolutely – and I've seen that kind of pattern in psychiatry.

We observe all kinds of things.

And so I mean we even notice that like when we're working with like my female colleagues, the way that they get treated by nurses depends on their buoyancy.

Right.

The way that they get treated by like the other female staff depends a lot on the buoyancy, like the way that that and hospitals are kind of different places where like, I mean, maybe I'm wrong for saying this, but there's a ton of like.

the worst toxicity that I've seen as a dude in the hospital is like, like nurses against doctors or doctors against nurses.

There's a whole like dynamic there.

Um, but, and so maybe it's, you know, I don't, I experienced it.

I see and experience a different kind of toxicity being a dude in a hospital compared to a woman, but.

So I'm really curious about like, you know, that archetype, you know, what is this shared experience of, of women like you?

I imagine they're also like dudes who like fall into this in some way too.