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Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

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HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

And, and so like, what's your understanding of like, what, what is the arc?

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Like, what is it?

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

You use the word archetype.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So can you tell me more about that?

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Yeah, so I love the phrase underappreciated overachiever.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I think it's very, I think it encapsulates it well.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I also think it's very, what's the word?

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So it seems super like there's a technical term in psychiatry called egocentronic or egodistonic.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So egocentronic means something that is aligned or fits with your ego.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

And egodistonic is something that does not fit with your ego.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So a really good example of this is like OCD versus OCPD, so obsessive compulsive disorder, obsessive compulsive personality disorder.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So when someone has OCPD, they're like super OCD, but they like it and they think it's right.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So they're like, I'm super OCD about this, but this is the way it should be and all y'all are wrong and I'm right.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

And OCD is usually ego dystonic, where, like, people know that I know I shouldn't be washing my hands eight times to prevent germs.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Like, I don't want to do this.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I just can't help it.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So the underappreciated overachiever sounds like a fantastic book title.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Like...

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

You know, so I think a lot of people will see that and it'll resonate with their egos.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Like they'll be like, yeah, like I work really hard.