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Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

👤 Speaker
3217 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Go for it, go for it.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

But like I think when we do that, which is a necessary thing.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So it's so interesting because the journey that you're talking is describing is almost like always what I see.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

So you start off with a negative conception of yourself and almost to come out of that.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

You need a you need to develop a hyper positive conception of self.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I'm the victim.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I'm the hero.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

And then the truth of the matter is like you're neither of those things.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

The truth of the matter is you're just you.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Yeah.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

And I got that energy from you the most when I actually heard this like story about the birthday party and like some of these other stories like where that, you know, you're not you're not being like heroic.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

You're just like, this is just me.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Like, this is not right.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Like, right.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

It feels like it's not like the conception of like, oh, look at me.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I'm standing up for justice and down with the arrogant creators like, oh, I'm so great.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

Right.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

I actually didn't get that at all.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

But there are absolutely people who will talk about that, like those experiences in those ways.

HealthyGamerGG
Navigating Toxic Jobs w/ ‪@chloeshih‬

And so I think I think there's something and I would encourage you to like really kind of look at that because there's something about you that people like absolutely react to.