Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

It's part of what makes us successful content creators and it's part of what gets us repeated text messages.

And also, like, I wonder if some of the learnings that you have are—that's what was missing, right?

So somewhere along the way, you learned how to code switch appropriately.

You learned how to communicate with people appropriately.

And it's very possible that in your college years, you didn't—you hadn't—you didn't know that stuff, right?

So you're, like, some, like, naive, bright-eyed, bushy-tailed, like, oh, like, we're all here.

Like, we're doing a dance.

Like, we want to win at dance.

Like, that's the North Star.

And there's, like, all kinds of other people that have different kinds of things, but—

I don't know.

I think it's like, it's for anyone who has a repeated pattern of victimization.

I'm not saying that you're like playing the victim.

I mean, like really people have been treating you like shit.

And this is what's so hard when I work with people who have been in like abusive relationship after abusive relationship is helping them understand that this isn't your fault.

And there are some signals that you're transmitting that attract abusers to you.

Look at me.

I am the priority now.

I am the priority.

Look into my eyes.