Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

And I, I, oh, sorry.

One, one last thing.

I love how you said, you know, we, we buy this rack to get organized.

Yes.

So I sort of feel like I'm constantly catching up, but never planning ahead.

Right.

So I'm like, okay, I need like two bookshelves.

Really?

I should have gotten three because I filled up the two.

But then the other thing that I sometimes worry about, I don't know if this has ever happened to you, but do you ever worry that if you buy extra space, like if you get like a big closet, you're just going to fill it up with junk?

What's the purse problem?

How do you deal with that?

yeah how did you get down to just one so much love for yourself um yeah i it starts with um that was actually hilarious with so much love for yourself like i i love that that is not the answer and that's what we say to ourselves and that doesn't help us at all

I was.

Yeah.

So, so, but that's, that's really great because I think, I think this is what's interesting.

Cause, um, I know this is going to sound weird.

Like, so I recognize that we are both therapists and, and, you know, we are both doctors and, um, but there's a part of me that like, when I hear like, you know, love yourself, I'm like, that's not going to fix the problem.

But what I'm hearing from you is actually a very clear mechanistic.

Oh, yeah.