Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanojia

My God.

Any thoughts on polyamory under duress and codependency, alexithymia, I made the mistake giving my consent for my girlfriend to see someone else, monogamy, eight years.

Yeah, can you post about it anonymously on the subreddit so we can get more detail and I can dive into that?

How do I tell a narcissistic person to shut up without them getting angry at me?

So in life, we can choose to act or we can choose to avoid consequences.

We can't choose both.

If you're going to tell someone to shut up, you've got to deal with the consequences.

Or you can keep silent and then they won't be angry with you.

So many people live life because they're trying to do something without the emotional consequence.

It doesn't work that way.

The moment that you accept the emotional consequence, the action will be easy to do.

They're going to be angry, so be it.

Right?

You get one.

You get the emotion or you get the action.

You get to be free from one of those two.

Okay?

Thank you all very much for coming today.

Hopefully nothing I said today was out of line, but if you all really do feel like I spoke out of turn with all this caller gate stuff, please let me know.

I'm genuinely open to feedback about it.