Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanojia
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The lateral movement is a consequence of an absence of forward movement, right?
So the real thing, if you really want to give up technology, there's a bunch of research that shows this.
You have to have a reason to quit, right?
Otherwise, you'll just replace it with something else.
So one other thing that I want to talk about in terms of existential depression, which is the sense of profound desperation.
When I sit with my patients, I don't know if this kind of makes sense, but they're like โ like this is sometimes where their suicidality comes in, where they're like โ
I don't care.
I just can't live in this fucking life anymore.
Like, I just don't want... It's the same damn day over and over and over again.
I've been doing this for years.
I can't do this for 30 years.
I can't do this for 40 years.
So sometimes it manifests as suicidality, but sometimes it manifests as like highly reckless behavior.
I just want to YOLO.
It's not that my patients are oftentimes suicidal.
It's that they long for...
Like, I want to become something or nothing at all.
Like, I want to go all in on something in life.
There's this fascination and love for YOLO, right?
Like, you only live once.