Dr. Alok Kanojia

And even if I say, if we pretend everything is okay, and then you say no, which is totally fine, but then are you wondering whether I think that's okay?

Am I just saying it's okay, but I really don't think it's okay?

So I think this is what's really important is,

People don't realize how to, it's not about opening the conversation.

People don't know how to navigate that conversation to a healthy close, right?

Whether it involves trying things or not.

There's so much that we don't know how to talk about because this is the one kind of conversation that no one ever teaches us how to have, right?

About intimacy.

And the funny thing about this is like,

A lot of people will think like, oh, you know, dudes want their wives to do particular things, but it goes both ways.

Of course.

And I think that oftentimes the men that I work with, you know, and I've had my wife complain about this to me.

And by the way, my wife says you are awesome.

I was supposed to give you this.

I received that, dude.

Thanks.

Because of the way that you talk about your relationship and she absolutely loves it.

Tell her I think she's awesome.

Will do.

So I forgot what I was saying.