Dr. Alok Kanojia

Oh, yeah.

So, you know, a lot of times we as men don't know how to provide the right level of romance that you find in a romance novel.

Right.

Right.

And our partners don't know how to ask that of us.

So they'll say, like, I want you to be more romantic.

Right.

But then we look at the cover of this romance novel where there's some like, you know, pirate.

And so similarly, there's a lot of stuff that that.

Our wives may be wanting us to do that.

They don't know how to ask for that is also intimate.

It's something between the two of us, but we're like, we can't live up.

So we can't live up to the, the, the washboard ab pirate riding a horse and they can't live up to the pornographic actress.

Right.

Whereas the beautiful thing is you don't have to live up to those two things.

The reality of it is great, you know?

And so I think there's a lot of like romance that we don't know how to do.

We think it's flowers and chocolates and that's it.

But there's so much more to it.

There's tension, there's connection, there's excitement.