Dr. Alok Kanojia
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Yeah.
So I think what people don't get about โ and I love this term, de-Hollywoodization.
We have these ideas of what relationships are.
Yeah.
And especially when it comes to things like โ
pornography when it comes to things like social media, right?
Where we have all these performative relationships where we have influencers who are showing, oh, my partner did this for me.
And people are, I really think a lot of this stuff really pollutes our idea of what a real relationship is.
And oftentimes what happens is
You know, if your partner is watching something, whether it's a Hollywood movie, an influencer or pornography, it can feel like you can't match that.
Right.
So there's a lot of sense of like, I can't live up to these expectations.
Absolutely.
I can't live up to these expectations.
One thing you got to remember is that you have certain things at your disposal that they can't match.
And your example is great.
It's actual physical touch.
You know, when you touch a human being, when you actually, there's like what you see when you kiss, when you see two people kissing, and then there's the actual experience of kissing.
So you have so much ammo that Hollywood can't touch, which is real experience.
It's real, yes, yes, yes, yeah.