Dr. Alok Kanojia

We have different interests.

Like I'm a gamer.

She's super into tennis, right?

And we're like completely different people.

And we would have never met on a dating app.

This is kind of funny.

The one thing we have in common, she's Indian, I'm Indian.

The one thing we have in common is we both...

didn't want to end up with an Indian person.

That's the only thing.

That's the only thing we have in common when it comes to, like, our shared preferences for relationships.

And if you look at the science of it, you know, sharing interests is not even in the top five of a successful relationship.

You know, it's really wild.

It absolutely passes the smell test, but it – I agree 100%.

And it triggers me because I think this is one of the worst things that's happening right now.

Okay.

So I completely agree that we use needs way too much and we don't use wants enough.

I think some of the other – some of the – that foundation I agree with 100%.

Where you go from there, I go in a far more negative place.

So I'm not disagreeing with even where you end up.