Dr. Alok Kanojia

And as we start entering the early stages of burnout, the first thing that goes from a neuroscience perspective is empathy.

And once empathy goes away, once you're not sleeping well and once empathy goes away, I'm sure you've seen this a ton and maybe lived through it, right?

But when you have young kids at home and things like that and sex life gets really challenging and then it becomes a desperate, we've got seven minutes, right?

So, but I think a big part of it is understanding that there are certain circumstances that create

That we didn't have to engineer before because they were natural and organic.

We could emotionally connect because we had a lot of idle time.

Yes.

And so what we really have to do once we get that time crunch is we have to understand, okay, what was the fertilizer at that time or what was the ground like at that time?

And now we need to add fertilizer.

Now we need to add something special that wasn't there before.

Intentionality.

Intentionality, right?

You have to really think about it.

And I think trust, safety, sleep, I think is huge, right?

And I think it's just understanding that there is some, I think this stuff gets overplayed a little bit, but there's absolutely like a physiological element where the sexual act for the male biology is different from the sexual act from female biology.

The energy investment for male biology is like, actually average is about seven minutes.

Uh-huh.

The energy investment for a female buyer- Half the audience was just like, seven minutes?

Oh, yeah.

So this is fascinating.