Dr. Alok Kanojia
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You're confessing.
So I'm falling more and more and more and more in love.
And then I suddenly dump all of that on you.
So I go from zero to 100,
The other person is like, where is this coming from?
And if you think about the way that organic, I don't know what happened with you and your relationship, but, you know, I would guess that most people out there, even if you kind of go from zero to 100, you don't show them zero to 100.
Right?
You fall for them real quick in the back of your mind.
You can't get them out of your head.
But you're kind of playing it cool, and there's this graduated— I was going to say, the old line was, dude, be cool.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And there are reasons why these things are the old line, right?
So there are reasons that we offer this kind of advice.
Yeah.
Because if you go from zero to 100 and the other person can't handle it, they're going to pull away.
Okay.
So, so right.
So I, I think, I think, so it sounds like y'all hunt.
Y'all hunt.
Okay.