Dr. Alok Kanojia

I work with a lot of beta males.

It's not that they're wrong.

It's that they're woefully incomplete.

They haven't done a study of the whole literature.

Sure, if you're more attractive, it is easier to get dates.

Here's the scariest statistic.

Drive for muscularity is inversely correlated with length of relationship.

Yeah.

So the more that if you're watching social media and you're like, I need to be pumped, I want to be pumped, I want to be pumped, I want to be pumped, that's what drives people away.

It's hard to have a relationship with that kind of person.

So by all means, get muscular, but want it less, which is really interesting because what I see is people wanting it more, like looks maxing, I want this, I want this, I want this.

So deprioritize it.

Yeah.

Oh, absolutely.

I mean, there's no I think there's no question of that.

So I forget if it was 41 percent of college graduates are men now.

So so I think like the it's really lopsided.

I think in 1975, the average age of marriage for a man was twenty three point eight.

And now it's thirty point eight.

It's not average, median.