Dr. Alok Kanojia

100% agree I remember when I played football in middle school there was this like thuggish kid who was from a poor area and he had transferred into our school and his brother showed up and he was also like this kind of gangstery dude and I remember a lot of us were trying to impress him by being like yeah dumb girls they don't know anything and I remember he was like guys guys guys

100% agree I remember when I played football in middle school there was this like thuggish kid who was from a poor area and he had transferred into our school and his brother showed up and he was also like this kind of gangstery dude and I remember a lot of us were trying to impress him by being like yeah dumb girls they don't know anything and I remember he was like guys guys guys

Don't even start that talk. I know you don't really mean it. I know you're just trying to front. You think you're hard? Hard guys don't talk like that. Hard guys respect their ladies. And I remember being like, what am I seeing right now? I've never heard this before from anyone, especially a cool, tough guy. And we immediately cut that shit out.

Don't even start that talk. I know you don't really mean it. I know you're just trying to front. You think you're hard? Hard guys don't talk like that. Hard guys respect their ladies. And I remember being like, what am I seeing right now? I've never heard this before from anyone, especially a cool, tough guy. And we immediately cut that shit out.

Don't even start that talk. I know you don't really mean it. I know you're just trying to front. You think you're hard? Hard guys don't talk like that. Hard guys respect their ladies. And I remember being like, what am I seeing right now? I've never heard this before from anyone, especially a cool, tough guy. And we immediately cut that shit out.

Like nobody had another word of that crap for the rest of our middle school career. It was over.

Like nobody had another word of that crap for the rest of our middle school career. It was over.

Like nobody had another word of that crap for the rest of our middle school career. It was over.

The problem that I found from, again, from like doing the dating coach thing back in the day is you also screen out the high confidence, high quality women that are going, would otherwise have been in your life.

The problem that I found from, again, from like doing the dating coach thing back in the day is you also screen out the high confidence, high quality women that are going, would otherwise have been in your life.

The problem that I found from, again, from like doing the dating coach thing back in the day is you also screen out the high confidence, high quality women that are going, would otherwise have been in your life.

Because if you start going, I'm going to devalue people, okay, you just lost the top 20% of confident, well-adjusted, healthy women because they're not going to sit around and deal with that. So now you've got this other pool of sort of equally damaged people that might pair with you based on your antics. And that's not good for either of you. And it's this reinforcing cycle, this negative cycle.

Because if you start going, I'm going to devalue people, okay, you just lost the top 20% of confident, well-adjusted, healthy women because they're not going to sit around and deal with that. So now you've got this other pool of sort of equally damaged people that might pair with you based on your antics. And that's not good for either of you. And it's this reinforcing cycle, this negative cycle.

Because if you start going, I'm going to devalue people, okay, you just lost the top 20% of confident, well-adjusted, healthy women because they're not going to sit around and deal with that. So now you've got this other pool of sort of equally damaged people that might pair with you based on your antics. And that's not good for either of you. And it's this reinforcing cycle, this negative cycle.

confirm your preconceived notions and then this becomes evidence or data and then the cycle continues you see this at the incels right they'll go women will always leave you for a guy with more money or better muscles or whatever and when no amount of convincing that you have is going to work because the guy who says that his wife left him for a dude with more money and because he was like running himself into the ground not taking care of himself or whatever the reason so he's going

confirm your preconceived notions and then this becomes evidence or data and then the cycle continues you see this at the incels right they'll go women will always leave you for a guy with more money or better muscles or whatever and when no amount of convincing that you have is going to work because the guy who says that his wife left him for a dude with more money and because he was like running himself into the ground not taking care of himself or whatever the reason so he's going

confirm your preconceived notions and then this becomes evidence or data and then the cycle continues you see this at the incels right they'll go women will always leave you for a guy with more money or better muscles or whatever and when no amount of convincing that you have is going to work because the guy who says that his wife left him for a dude with more money and because he was like running himself into the ground not taking care of himself or whatever the reason so he's going

I have two women that left me for those reasons, and you're telling me, no, it's not true. Like, what do you know, Jordan, you schmo?

I have two women that left me for those reasons, and you're telling me, no, it's not true. Like, what do you know, Jordan, you schmo?

I have two women that left me for those reasons, and you're telling me, no, it's not true. Like, what do you know, Jordan, you schmo?