Dr. Alok Kanojia
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Like we're trying really hard.
Like don't fall in love.
Don't fall.
These two are getting together.
All the nursing staff is aware.
They went to their rooms overnight.
Like this is happening.
Like, you know, we're like, don't no love and no.
In rehab.
But it happens over and over again because everyone is sharing.
Trauma bonding is what people call it now.
But when you share an emotional experience with someone else, that is what fosters love.
But nowadays what happens is like dating is like interviews.
Everyone is making judgments on each other based on a profile.
None of those things actually correlate with the relationship success, whether you're six feet, how much money you make.
It doesn't correlate with – I mean I'm sure maybe it correlates on some level.
But if you look at the big variables, it's not any of that stuff.
And if you think about how you fell in love with your girlfriend, how I fell in love, I was going to be a monk.
I told my girlfriend.
I didn't know we were dating.