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Dr. Anna Lembke

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The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

And there are a couple ways we can get back there.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

We can just wait till the gremlins hop off and homeostasis is restored.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

That is, not have more potato chips.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

Or we can have more potato chips because that will get us back there faster.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

And of course, you know, potato chips are yummy.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

So that's what I want to do.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

But this brings us to the second rule of the balance.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

And the second rule of the balance is with repeated exposure to the same or similar reinforcing stimulus, that initial deflection to the side of pleasure gets weaker and shorter in duration, but that after response to pain gets stronger and longer.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

In other words, those gremlins start to multiply.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

They're now lifting weights.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

We've got Arnold Schwarzenegger gremlins, right?

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

So this sense of like, I'm doing something pleasurable for me right now.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

Yes, that's true because it brings us back to level position.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

But in the long run, what it does is it drives us down to the side of pain.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

And this is really key for understanding what happens in the brain as we become addicted.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

Because if we continue to consume our drug of choice over days to weeks to months to years,

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

We then have enough gremlins on the pain side of the balance to fill this whole room.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

And eventually they are camped out there, tents and barbecues in tow.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

And then we've changed our hedonic or joy set point, right?

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Get Motivated: #1 Dopamine Expert’s Protocol to Build Willpower & Get Things Done

Now we need more of our drug in more potent forms, more potato chips, not to feel good, but just to level the balance and feel normal.