Dr. April Ilkmen

Hey, everybody. My name is Lee Hammack. I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist. One of my monikers has become, like, the self-aware narcissist.

Hey, everybody. My name is Lee Hammack. I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist. One of my monikers has become, like, the self-aware narcissist.

So I told her to get the hell out. And of course she's like, okay, I'm leaving. And on the way out the door, she says, you know what? It's so damn hard living with a narcissist.

So I told her to get the hell out. And of course she's like, okay, I'm leaving. And on the way out the door, she says, you know what? It's so damn hard living with a narcissist.

Yeah, super insult. So damn hard to live with a narcissist slamming the door. I was just like, wait, what?

Yeah, super insult. So damn hard to live with a narcissist slamming the door. I was just like, wait, what?

Why did she call me that? So I sit down on the bed and I'm, you know, don't don't angry Google. I was angry Googling.

Why did she call me that? So I sit down on the bed and I'm, you know, don't don't angry Google. I was angry Googling.

So I typed in narcissist in Google and it said, did you mean narcissistic personality disorder?

So I typed in narcissist in Google and it said, did you mean narcissistic personality disorder?

I didn't mean that, but, you know, I got time on my hands now, so let's go down the rabbit hole. So I clicked on it, and literally, it was like, boom. And I started reading the signs and the symptoms and things like that, and I was like, oh, damn.

I didn't mean that, but, you know, I got time on my hands now, so let's go down the rabbit hole. So I clicked on it, and literally, it was like, boom. And I started reading the signs and the symptoms and things like that, and I was like, oh, damn.

I don't know if you ever seen the movie Ratatouille. So there's a scene in Ratatouille at the end when like the food critic eats the ratatouille and it took him back to his childhood. Yeah. That's what happened to me when she said that, like when I started looking up narcissism and a lack of empathy, it took me back to my childhood when I was like in first or second grade.

I don't know if you ever seen the movie Ratatouille. So there's a scene in Ratatouille at the end when like the food critic eats the ratatouille and it took him back to his childhood. Yeah. That's what happened to me when she said that, like when I started looking up narcissism and a lack of empathy, it took me back to my childhood when I was like in first or second grade.

Didn't listen. Bam, he falls, snaps his arm. And everybody's like, oh, my goodness, Tony's hurt. I'm screaming. I'm angry at Tony now. I don't care that he's hurt. You know, I'm angry as hell. I'm crying angry.

Didn't listen. Bam, he falls, snaps his arm. And everybody's like, oh, my goodness, Tony's hurt. I'm screaming. I'm angry at Tony now. I don't care that he's hurt. You know, I'm angry as hell. I'm crying angry.

That he had inconvenienced me. Because now we all had to go inside and now this is the time we get to go outside and play. Now we have to go inside because you made a decision not to listen to me.

That he had inconvenienced me. Because now we all had to go inside and now this is the time we get to go outside and play. Now we have to go inside because you made a decision not to listen to me.

I was like, damn, wow. This is it. I remember texting my wife. I was like, you're right. I am a narcissist. Really? Yeah, that night. Yeah, that night. I was like, you're right. I looked it up. I am a narcissist. I was like, you are 100% on it.

I was like, damn, wow. This is it. I remember texting my wife. I was like, you're right. I am a narcissist. Really? Yeah, that night. Yeah, that night. I was like, you're right. I looked it up. I am a narcissist. I was like, you are 100% on it.